In social communication, people's emotional communication has different ways, and courtesy is one of them.
Dear relatives and friends, classmates and colleagues who get along with each other day and night, respected superior leaders and family affairs, we should all go and see them, or express our feelings with a gift. this is
It is beyond reproach to extend friendship and enhance opportunities for emotional communication. However, with the development of society, the names of ceremonies are increasing, the atmosphere is getting worse and worse, the scope is getting wider and wider, and the patterns are constantly being renovated, which makes people really difficult to deal with. Wedding ceremony, death ceremony, children's full moon ceremony, housewarming ceremony and opening ceremony.
Gifts, children go to college, high school students should follow gifts, celebrate birthdays, remarry, and so on.
There are more and more accompanying ceremonies, and people feel that accompanying ceremonies are not promoting friendship and emotion, but seem to be exchanging something with each other. Today is your full moon, tomorrow is my birthday, today.
When will you get married? I will get married tomorrow. You send him and he sends you, which makes everyone eat "buffets" frequently, spending money on their own meals and wasting money on each other. Neither the host nor the guests wanted to do this, but because of the "nonsense face", no one wanted to pierce enough paper, and the nature of the ceremony changed. However, there are more and more phenomena of following rituals.
It's getting worse and worse, showing signs of getting out of control. In some places, the phenomenon of accompanying gifts is serious, and the monthly salary is half.
Therefore, most people are extremely reluctant after following the ceremony, and they will scold "evil follows the ceremony" in their hearts. I hope it helps you.