Chua Lam, one of Hong Kong’s “Four Great Talents”, used his collection of essays to tell us that we should have fun while we are alive. Cai Lan's philosophy of life is to do what you like, which is happiness. If you want to worry, you have to wait until tomorrow to worry. Cai Lam is a truly free and unrestrained person, full of open-minded life wisdom between the lines, and is regarded as a model of life by countless people.
While scrolling through Douyin yesterday, I saw a farmer couple from Ruian, Wenzhou, gaining millions of fans by creating their own dance. Four years ago, her husband suffered from depression due to a car accident. The wife took her husband to learn and practice dance together to find fun and get out of the gloom. Their smiles are very contagious. During the interview, they said that while they are in good health, they can eat whatever they want and do whatever they want.
Cai Lam, in his collection of essays "Live to the Fullest," uses five chapters to talk about the people and things around him. Through the narration of these short stories, he conveys to us a sense of The philosophy of life, in the final analysis, is a kind of freedom and ease.
If you don’t expect to become a master, you will have no burden in your heart
Nowadays, many people are always eager for success and gain. After just two days of hard work, they want to become different and become A master-level figure, if he has any unsatisfactory results, will feel that he has no talent, or that he has no eyes and no eyes. In fact, many people's achievements come from "accidental intervention". At the beginning, Jack Ma did not expect that he would make Alibaba so big. Yu Minhong only wanted to have a job to make a living. At the beginning, they only did the immediate things.
As Cai Lan said in the article: If you don’t expect to become a master, you will have no burden in your heart. Once people are mentally relaxed, they will be able to do things more easily.
More and more people are beginning to see the facts clearly. In the past, they would rather laugh on a bicycle than cry on a BMW. Now most people see clearly that even if they laugh on a bicycle, they will end up crying. I will still cry, so it is better to choose to cry in the BMW.
In the real society, more and more people don’t want to get married. Find someone with poor conditions. If you are unwilling to get married, find someone with good conditions. The other person thinks you are after his money. It’s a dilemma. After getting married, you have to be able to go to the hall, be in the kitchen, beat the mistress, fight cockroaches, and become a superwoman when you become a mother. How can you be as cool as being single?
Just like Chua Lam’s philosophy: Forget it, marry a rich man, it’s better to be a rich man yourself. It doesn't matter if you don't get married. It would be great to buy a pretty boy.