First, quarreling between husband and wife is inevitable, but quarreling every day needs to calm down and communicate well with each other.
Second, reflect on whether the tone of talking to the other party is too excited. If there is no big difference between the two, pay attention to the tone of the other person's voice. The two agreed to keep calm and try not to have big emotional ups and downs.
Third, if it is because of different views or different views on things, one party will listen to the other party's meaning before expressing his own views.
Fourth, when there are differences, if there is really no result, then you might as well stop for a while and calm down and deal with it.
In fact, quarreling is also a way of venting and communicating, and it is one of the ways to find and solve problems. It's important to tell the truth when quarreling, and it's important to show your thoughts. Don't ramble or importune.
Six, the family is not a battlefield, don't diamond cut diamond, to outdo each other.
Recently, I read Li Yong's article My Wife's Harbor, which was deeply moved. Excerpts are as follows:
"/kloc-married in 0/7 years, more and more afraid of havin. Who have I been afraid of in my life? My father and I dare to strike the table, and so do the leaders. I didn't do anything wrong, but why am I so afraid of Havin?
A hundred quarrels, a hundred apologies. I'm afraid of her.
I think it's not my fault. It's my fault, and I have to admit it. My style is not confession.
It is a virtue for a man to apologize to the woman he loves. I also thought of a profound sentence about my virtue: mature rice always bends down, and I bend down because I am mature.
I've been thinking about it for a long time. After all, what am I afraid of? What if I resist once?
After much deliberation, I decided to give up all thoughts about the uprising. Because I care about her feelings, I uprising, she is uncomfortable, and I am even more uncomfortable. She is a liar, she is happy, and I am happy.
I am afraid of her because I love her. "
My husband and I have been married for 6 years, and now our relationship is getting worse and worse. What should I do if I often quarrel and make conflicts?
You have been married for six years, and some quarrels are common. Don't judge that your relationship has gone bad just because there is an argument. You must analyze the cause of the quarrel. It may be that the work is not smooth, or it may be too tired. This needs to be understood.
Maybe it's because his parents have something to worry about at home, maybe it's because the child's disobedience has affected his leisure time, maybe he's hungry after work, and you haven't cooked yet, and so on. Of course, these things and other things can be explained to you calmly, which can resolve the escalation of contradictions. In fact, life is like this. It takes only three years to get married 1 and I have been intoxicated with those sweet things in marriage.
With the change of life, there are more and more things. Things that are not exposed when you are in love are increasingly reflected.
Because both men and women will give each other a sunny side when they are in love. After marriage, E69DA5E6BA90E79FA5E98193313326463164, people think that great events have lost their freshness, life has become dull, and noise has followed, so people call it bad feelings.
In fact, it is not; This time can better reflect mutual understanding, mutual love and mutual understanding. Their lives are like children playing house. You are his mother and he is your father. You care about him as a mother. Can he not understand? He cares about you like a father. Can you not understand?
Getting along like this will make you feel new. You didn't explain why you quarreled, so I can only say "Sheila". If you want to talk to me, I'll wait for your reply and talk about things according to the actual situation.
According to my life experience, women are born with the ability to do housework. I hope you don't be pessimistic.
I wish you happiness every day.
After six years of marriage, what should I do because of the disagreement between husband and wife and family?
1, see if there are any questions of principle. If it is a trivial matter, men should be as generous as possible and don't quarrel with women.
2. If men and women cheat, it needs to be studied. If you can, you can. If you can't pass, you can leave.
3. When you don't quarrel, discuss calmly, and don't quarrel easily. First of all, two people should talk in a low voice, no matter who is often loud, it is easy to get angry. It's easy to start a war.
4. Men and women should also be humble to each other and discuss things as much as possible. Frequent quarrels are easy to hurt feelings. If there is no big problem, you can endure it and try not to make any noise.
5. Try to talk less when the other person is in a bad mood. Avoid friction.
Both husband and wife should pay attention to their own strengths. Understand everything when you are in trouble, and don't always dwell on each other's shortcomings.
7. Do housework as actively as possible. Husband and wife try to care about each other.
8. Try not to divorce when you see your child.
Ask the master to show us our marriage. We've been married for six years, and we often quarrel. Is it out of character?
First of all, I'm not an expert and I don't have very rich experience. Seeing that I haven't answered your question, I want to express my personal feelings.
First, do not pay attention to some external factors. It doesn't mean that you have bad feelings. It's bullshit. It means that two people have different views on something. If you think from the other person's point of view, your voice will be lower, which may ease some atmosphere. Not to the point of quarreling. If we boil the quarrel down to discussion and then to discussion, the problem will be much simpler, don't you think?
For example, my husband and I always quarrel. Most of it is his indulgence, and I can control the temperature. If he is really angry, I dare not expect anything. My experience is that everyone has troubles from life, work, family and other factors. Sometimes, some issues are put aside and discussed when the two sides are calm. Don't move out to discuss when everyone is bored, so it's strange not to quarrel.
For another example, I really made him angry, so I immediately took some preventive measures. I will say, "Honey, don't be angry. What should I do if I am angry with my health? Don't argue with me when your health is important. " Hehe, don't feel sour. I think this is the most effective. His heart melted as soon as he heard such sweet words. Women are vain and want to buy new clothes and gifts, but the family is shared by two people. Don't disregard his feelings for everything. I'll discuss with him if I buy something over 200. If it is more expensive, I will make him happy with my heart.
I won't give examples for details. Treat people around you sincerely, and they will treat you in the same way. I believe you will handle your emotional problems and put the word divorce on death row.
Forget it, let alone mention it. Try to change yourself, make yourself independent, confident and respect yourself and others.