The zodiac records the year of birth with the cycle of the twelve earthly branches and the corresponding animals. This is a unique way for China people to record the date of birth according to the date of birth. As a result, there is a kind of communication between people's ability, personality and destiny among the people. It seems that people who belong to any kind of animal have the temperament of that kind of animal, especially the constellation believed by westerners. The individual zodiac belongs to the core monument of his own god of life.
This concept and custom have been applied to many formal occasions, such as marriage, which is an important moment for both men and women in appreciate each other. Whether the zodiac signs match each other is an indispensable standard.
The so-called coincidence circulating among the people is:
The combination of children and ugliness-the combination of rats and cows
Has been combined with the individual-the combination of snakes and waiting.
The combination of yin and sea-the combination of tiger and pig
No Harmony at Noon-Harmony between Horse and Sheep
Chen and Union-Combination of Dragon and Phoenix
The combination of hair and Xu-the combination of rabbit and dog
There are the following folk sayings that do not belong to the same genus:
The white horse is afraid of Taurus, once the sheep and rats rest.
Snakes and tigers are like knives, without tears.
The golden rooster is afraid of the jade dog, and the pigs will not get to the end.
The so-called zodiac signs are mutually reinforcing, which stems from the way that the five elements are mutually reinforcing and mutually reinforcing. According to the ancient concept of China people, everything from the vast universe to ants and insects can not be separated from the five elements, namely, gold, wood, water, fire and earth. The mutual laws of the five elements are: wood fire, fire gives birth to soil, natural gold, gold gives birth to water, aquatic wood, wood fire again ... The mutual laws are: Mu Tuke, earth breaks water, water breaks fire, and fire breaks golden rules.
In terms of the zodiac, because the zodiac belongs to the five elements, there is a relationship between the zodiac, which is applicable to all kinds of interpersonal relationships, and marriage is no exception. Becoming mysterious, it is extremely taboo for men to commit six reds in marriage.
Family is the basic cell of society, and marriage is one of the important factors that constitute family. Marriage harmony is the foundation of family happiness and one of the factors of social stability.
There are many factors that affect marriage, such as ethics, psychology, culture, physiology, ideas, feelings, customs and so on. We believe that numerology is also crucial, but it has been ignored by many people. In fact, apart from numerology, many problems in marriage cannot be explained. Perfect appearance, inseparable, growing old together, heroic beauty ... these are the portrayal of a happy marriage; Beating Yuanyang, Cowherd and Weaver Girl, Forced Marriage, Hatred Couple, strange bedfellows, Couple Turning Against each other, Young Widow ... These are all descriptions of marriage tragedy. If we study these two completely different marriage phenomena from the perspective of sociology, we can't find the root of the problem, nor can we find a wonderful way to put an end to the tragedy. If analyzed from the perspective of numerology, it is not difficult to find out the answer. Marriage in numerology is generalized, but in fact, there is an essential spouse relationship (spiritual and physical intimacy) between men and women within a certain time range, which is called marriage in numerology.
First, the method of marriage (the following five methods should be comprehensively considered and analyzed)
1, Zodiac Matching Relationship: There can be no punishment, impulsiveness, punishment or injury between male and female Zodiacs (except for boys with five stars, girls with five stars) ... People whose Zodiac is unitary (chicken) can't marry people whose Zodiac is hairy (rabbit), because fur and rabbit are always in conflict. You can't match dogs because they hurt each other.
2, measured by the gods in the four pillars: there should not be too many "peach blossoms" in the four pillars; Women should not appear "red" and "floating clouds", which is considered unlucky in principle. Mistakes of yin and yang are bad for marriage every day.
3, measured by six relatives: male life can not be compared, robbing money is heavy, otherwise it is suspected of killing his wife, female life can not hurt officials, heavy prosperity, otherwise husband and male life can not be revealed, otherwise family ties are not specialized, female life can not be mixed with official killing without food injury.
4, measured by men and women's respective gods of fate:
1) The fate of men and women is interdependent with God;
2) The jealousy of one man or woman is the use of the other (only beneficial to one party);
3) The jealousy of one partner is restrained by the fate of the other partner (only beneficial to one partner);
4) the fate of both men and women is immortal;
5) After the fate of both parties is combined, they will not hurt each other's original actress (official killing, food injury);
6) Both parties have the same Dont Ask For Help case, but they want to get engaged;
7) The service life of both parties can basically match;
8) mutual benefit is the best;
5, both men and women are equipped with eight-character Japanese columns, which should be dry and healthy, and avoid rushing. Husband and wife stars should be properly matched and biased.
Second, the numerological reasons for the unfortunate formation of marriage
Tao Te Ching says: "One yin and one yang are the Tao". When men and women get married, there will be new changes and combinations of the five elements of the human body, which will inevitably affect each other's good and bad luck to a certain extent. Strictly speaking, the occurrence of marriage disaster is not only determined by one's own fate, but also influenced by the other party. The depth of marriage disaster depends on the combination of two fates.
Third, the way to resolve the marriage disaster.
1, orientation adjustment: that is to say, use the orientation of God. If God is used as wood, go to the east of the birthplace.
2, separation: the two sides temporarily separated for a period of time not to meet, and then continue the love of fish and water after the disaster.
3. Divorce: Solve the problem completely.
4. Yin-Yang method: a peculiar method handed down by the ancients. For this method, "different people have different opinions."
Marriage is one of the important contents of traditional eight-character prediction, which has a very wide influence. Nowadays, people who ask for marriage meet from time to time. Can marriage be combined? If so, how? To understand this problem, I am afraid we must first understand what marriage is. Marriage is to put the eight characters of two men and women together and let the forecaster see how their marriage quality is and whether they can grow old together. This "combination" is for forecasters, a forecast, not a "manufacturing". However, in the common people's minds, there is a misunderstanding on this fundamental issue: they mistakenly believe that a happy marriage can be "made" by the combination of forecasters.
There were several ways of marriage in ancient times: one was the method of gods and evil spirits, which was the so-called combination of gods and evil spirits according to the fate of eight characters. In the eight characters of male life, there is a god who is a wife, and women cannot marry; There is a certain Shakefu in a woman's eight characters, and a man can't marry her. This marriage law has basically disappeared except in a few rural areas. The second is the zodiac method, which is based on the relationship between men and women. It is said that the marriage of men and women for many years cannot be hurt, urged or punished. Third, the annual column method, that is, using the relationship between the two words of the annual column to see whether a man's marriage is auspicious. Nianzhu and marriage are in harmony, auspicious and fierce. The fourth is to use the divine method. The marriage of mutual help between men and women is good with God, and mutual help is evil. This is fate.
Combined with forecasting practice, these methods must be resolutely abandoned. In short, it's useless and harmful! Whether those eight characters can be married or not. I think it's ok to call it marriage, but we need to change the connotation. Getting married is by no means to say that someone's marriage is unlucky. Ask the predictor to get married, and it will become lucky. No forecaster in the world has such superb skills. The combination is a forecast, not a "manufacturing". If someone does ask the predictor to get married, and the marriage is really good, it is his or her marriage, not the result of marriage. If you want to change your destiny, what you can do now can only increase or decrease people's good or bad luck in a limited way. It's impossible. So how do we get married when we usually predict? My experience is based on the following principles:
1. Look at the horoscope of two people. As long as their horoscope and year luck show auspicious information in their marriage, their marriage is definitely good. You can bet that they are a good marriage.
2. If the marriage information displayed by both men and women is fierce, they can no longer solve their own marriage disaster. The purpose of marriage is not to divorce. China people pay attention to growing old together. So what should we do? There are several situations here: two young people come to get married, and their feelings are inseparable, but according to fate, they want to divorce at the age of 40. What shall we do? You can't persuade them not to get married or to get married after 40. At most, tell them that they have emotional turmoil after the age of 40, and then pay attention. If two young people come to get married and see that they are going to get divorced, we might as well persuade them to get married in the worst year, or we can make it clear. As for what others do, that's their business. It's good that the forecaster can do this.
In the prediction, I often meet the question: Can I marry him (her)? Am I related to her (him)? In fact, no forecaster can tell from the eight characters whether the person represented by the eight characters is married to Zhang San or Li Si. At most, you can talk about some characteristics of each other. If you encounter such a problem, you can use whether the two eight-character marriage information are synchronized. If two people have a good year and a bad year, and their feelings are good, it is naturally destined. If the information is very inconsistent, there is absolutely no chance And having an affair. We should also judge according to this principle.
Marriage between men and women is the way of yin and yang, and it is an important event in life. The quality of marriage directly affects family happiness and social stability. In Where Are You Going, some people have a happy marriage and a happy family, while others have an unhappy marriage. What is the reason? Apart from the family environment, the education received since childhood, the differences in life values and temperament between the two sides, a big reason is that the yin and yang elements in the eight characters of both sides are restrained, but remember: unmarried people had better take a look at the eight characters of men and women before marriage to avoid bad marriage, because marriage is a major event in life, and no one wants to have a bad marriage. If you get married scientifically before marriage, it will be good for people, yourself and society, and reduce a lot of helpless troubles. The divorce of husband and wife is caused by the confrontation of gas field. If the marriage is not smooth, try your best to remedy it. Unfavorable marriage can be remedied from the eight characters of men and women, find a four-poster match that both sides like, find a spouse with a divine orientation, change his name, change his fortune, change his feng shui, do good deeds, do good deeds and let people go.
In a family full of love and happiness, these five innate factors are often born together when both parties are born; Heavenly stems and earthly branches blends; Their birthdays coincide with each other, or the year and day are high and low; The birthplaces of both sides conform to certain laws; Name: Wuchong, etc. In a family with bumpy marriage and love, the five elements of both sides often have the wrong date, the blade of a sheep and the peach blossom, and there are many four-pillar factors, and the names have obvious signals that marriage and love are not smooth. Although the two sides are married, they have reached a certain fate and year, either divorced or seriously ill or even died. The middle family is an ordinary family, which is basically stable, with few major events and constant minor events, and the internal marriage information of both parties is mixed.