Nowadays, people in society are pointing fingers and making irresponsible remarks about the marriage of older people. They also think they are very traditional. In fact, traditional culture has never restricted the age of marriage for men and women. As long as two people love each other, age is not a problem.
According to the calendar in traditional culture, there are four main coincidences of fleeting time.
1 tiangan combination
A and hexahedron b and heptyl c and octahedral d and nonapentyl and decyl.
for instance
People born in 2004 are people born in Shen Jianian, and people born in 2009 are natural and dry, so it is more appropriate to get married.
The law of the combination of heaven and earth is that the difference between men and women is 5 years. This is completely consistent with the statistical results made by foreign psychologists. The result of long-term big data survey by foreign experts also shows that there is a five-year gap between men and women, that is, men are five years older than women in best age for marriage.
2. the ground branches are consistent.
Zi Chou, Yin Hai, Mao and Xu, Chen and You, Shen and Wu.
The combination of earthly branches is also a zodiac combination. The age difference between men and women is at least one year. For example, the combination of ugliness and ugliness is the combination of mice and cows. The biggest difference is 1 1 year, which is also a rat and a cow.
This kind of marriage age is relatively broad, as high as 1 1 year.
In three days, the trunk and branches coincided at the same time.
This kind of coincidence, because heavenly stems and earthly branches is coincident, will of course be happier and happier in theory.
For example, a person born in the year of 1976 in Bingchen coincides with a person born in the year of 8 1, which is the so-called "match made in heaven", because the heavenly stems are the combination of C and Xin, and the earthly branches are the combination of Chen and You. Theoretically, this kind of marriage is at least 5 years old and at most 15 years old.
And if the age difference between two people is as big as 15 years old, it is really a rare combination.
4 Coincidence of three-in-one game
In ancient China, because it was not monogamous, a three-in-one game could be used to match the age of husband and wife. The three-in-one game is the most powerful and the combination is the most stable. The three-in-one game has a combination of Yin Wu and Hai Mao, and a combination of Shen Zichen.
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When yin and yang are combined, the tiger is a horse, and the zodiac is a dog. These three people are the most stable combination.
Summarize four methods of ancient marriage in China. The first one is the combination of heaven and earth, which is most suitable for the present social situation. The age difference between husband and wife is five years, which is not only consistent with numerology, but also can maintain a good fate, and there will be no generation gap because of the great age difference. Other marriage ages have their own advantages and disadvantages, some are not suitable for the legal system of contemporary society, and some are only for a few people.