In fact, you can change your mind: How to find a good marriage? Whether you are married or unmarried, the methods and principles are the same.
There are two articles on the Internet, "A Collection of Induction Sharing and Theoretical Methods for Seeking Marriage" and "Master Yinguang Says Methods for Seeking Marriage". Search for them and read them. They all talk about the truth about successful marriage. Examples are well worth looking at.
The following is the introduction to the first article:
Marriage Sensing Cases (1) No wife seeks Guanyin’s standards, but all wishes come true
Text: Miaoyin layman
The biggest worry for contemporary young people is how to find a satisfactory partner. In his teachings to me in 1997, my master always told me to leave the important task of seeking a wife to Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva. To be honest, except for emergencies and horrors, I would not dare to seek help from Guanyin Bodhisattva for my own benefit. However, as I get older, the trouble of finding a partner also comes, and my horoscope has a strong influence on marriage. Shun information, I have been worried about this for many years.
After several emotional setbacks, I was very poor and loved to give. By 2001, I was 27 years old and had only 8,000 yuan in my pocket (the minimum cost for a wife here is hundreds of thousands). , and I was often sick physically, emotionally tortured, financially strapped, and incurable, so I had to shamelessly seek help from Guanshiyin Bodhisattva to apply the principles and methods of destiny-changing in Buddhism to change my marital problems.
Then he changed Master Yin Guang’s poem about asking for a son to a poem about asking for a wife. He vowed to do a thousand good deeds, recited the Universal Gate Principle three times a day, bowed to the Bodhisattva 49 times, kept the precept against sexual misconduct in all his life, and advised his mother. I pray for rebirth in the West, etc., and ask Bodhisattva to give me the standards for my wife: 1. Honor my mother, 2. Support my Buddhist studies, 3. Make up for my finances, 4. Help my future, 5. She doesn’t have to be beautiful, but she must be able to see through it.
After half a year of traveling, the feeling came. My mother went to draw lots at the beginning of the fifth lunar month, and the result was that marriage would be possible after autumn. But I didn’t have a partner at that time. My mother was very strange. She went to draw another lot in late May of the lunar calendar. This lot was even more terrifying. It was said that it was the auspicious day of Guanyin Bodhisattva on the 19th day of the 6th lunar month. The marriage was likely to come about because Guanshiyin Bodhisattva was the one pulling the strings. I didn’t believe it at all. There is still no partner, and there are only more than 20 days until June 19th. Even if there were at that time, it would take a year and a half to fall in love. Who has ever heard that a marriage can be completed in more than ten days, let alone an intellectual? But how did the interpreter know that I was seeking Guanyin Bodhisattva? I am very confused!
Two days later, a friend introduced me to someone, and I couldn’t predict a hexagram (six-yao prediction). I didn’t want to read it, but my friend was very enthusiastic, so I had to go and see it. When we met, because we were in a coffee shop and the light was dark, my wife looked a little dark. Overall, I felt uncomfortable and didn’t want to continue. To be honest, at that time, I couldn't see clearly what my wife looked like. One was because the light was dark, and the other was that I only took one or two glances at her. But at noon the next day, I had a dream when I was sleeping. I dreamed that my wife was smiling at me, which woke me up. I cried in my heart, "It's over, this is it." Because she was in the dream more clearly than I saw her in reality, the day before yesterday. Later I found out that the clothes she was wearing were exactly the same as a piece of clothing in her wardrobe (before that, I didn’t even know what she looked like, let alone Tell me what the clothes are like).
Later, when we met again, I realized that my wife was quite good-looking, but she just couldn’t see clearly that day. On June 18th, I met my wife's parents (according to custom, meeting the woman's parents is half of the wedding). I was really shocked that the date was so accurate. After I got married, all the five criteria I asked for from the Bodhisattva came true. My wife is wise and filial to my mother. She not only supports me in learning Buddhism but also follows me. She has given me great help financially and given me a lot of support for my future.
Suggestion: Your wife is your partner for the rest of your life, which directly affects your life path for the rest of your life. It is still important to find a like-minded wife, so everyone can pray to the Bodhisattva. The Qiuzishu modified by Master Yi Yinguang is very effective. You may wish to give it a try, because everyone says that Qiuzishu is very inspiring.