Because you are overly superstitious and believe in yourself. You decide your own destiny. Every time you fail or encounter something unfavorable, you should consider where you made mistakes and where you didn't handle it well. Instead of blindly believing that this is destiny, in the history of human revolutions, independent and scientific new ideas have been emphasized many times to refute pedantic and outdated ideas. Read more books with positive energy to keep your heart happy. Don't let your immediate failure seem like a mysterious force majeure. Many things have causes, processes and results, and they are interrelated to form the "dilemma" in front of you. Therefore, it is recommended that you read more philosophical books and maintain your inner prosperity, so that life will be smooth sailing.