/kloc-advantages and disadvantages of marriage for men and women aged 0/6

If the age gap between husband and wife is too big, it will happen that the husband is eager to have children, and the wife wants to continue to struggle at work for several years because she is too young, which will cause disputes between the two on the issue of having children.

In addition, the relationship between an old man and several wives will make it more difficult to conceive children. After all, women are in their thirties and men are in their thirties. With the increase of people's age, the quality and activity of sperm and eggs will decrease, and the chance of combination will also decrease. Even if pregnancy is successful, the chances of fetal accidents and deformation will increase.

Many couples don't feel any contradiction when they first get along, but with the daily chores and the birth of children after marriage, the contradiction between husband and wife will appear. Especially between the three-year-old generation gap and the husband and wife who are too different in age, after all, the thinking logic and way of thinking about problems will be very different.

The difference in age brings about the differences in people's hearts. Perhaps in what you think is important, the other party may not think it is important; It may also be something that you think is good for your child, but it is not necessary for him.

There is also a view in psychology that "psychological age" similarity is more conducive to similarity than actual age similarity. Between husband and wife, the actual age difference is best kept at 5 to 8 years old, and women are 5 to 8 years younger than men. Because of this age difference, the psychological age of both sides is the closest.