Recently, I was evaluated as a bear by others, which is dishonest! I went to look up the meaning of this bear, cowardly, incompetent and irresponsible.

Maybe others think you look honest, but in fact you have a lot of ideas in your heart. People always have their own ideas. Don't care what other people think. You are yourself. First of all, you should be yourself. Second, you should recognize what you think should be changed and then correct it. Think about what others have said, and then you can correct it. But you can also correct your character in other ways. For example, books are a good medium. You can see more readers. We should think more about some life feelings in the book, think about what to do, and set an example and expectation for ourselves. Second, maybe you lack confidence, or maybe you lack some masculinity. You should do more exercise to improve your masculinity. Exercise more to exercise your courage. You can watch some horror movies or practice what you may be afraid of to overcome it. I hope this helps.