1, involving personal privacy, do not want people to know these private affairs.
Everyone has their own privacy and doesn't want to tell everything. In the end, they will become the talk of others after dinner.
2. The reasons for breaking up are very complicated, and it may not be glorious enough to say it.
Some reasons for breaking up are wonderful. Let's start with an example of a male classmate: the classmate talked about an ex. The reason for breaking up is that his mother is too strong and picky and indifferent to the object that her son brought home. The girl is very beautiful, and the clothes are very fashionable and beautiful. Her classmate's mother asked someone for her eight characters, and her face turned black, saying it was inappropriate. She also said, Francois, a girl, who is dressed so beautifully for? Students have always been weak under the strength of their mothers, and dare not disobey their mothers for their girlfriends. Girls think that this kind of family has not gone through the door and broke up decisively. After this breakup caused by parents' feudal superstition or strength spread, it was difficult for the boy to find a girlfriend again, so he didn't dare to make it public at all.
I'm worried that the reason for breaking up will be criticized.
If breaking up is a woman's problem, will others really believe it if men say it? A colleague is fooling around at work and has a weak sense of responsibility. He made a girlfriend, and the girl cheated on him with someone else six months ago. Everyone knows the reason why he gossiped when he broke up. The boy said it was a girl's indiscretion, and she was having an affair with someone else. Everyone doesn't believe his usual behavior, but secretly thinks that he is not decent and slanders his predecessor. This situation is really embarrassing!
If it's a man's problem, I'm afraid it will affect my reputation. It's similar to the breakup of the classmate above. If the breakup is due to a boy's infidelity/bad temper/domestic violence, how can the boy admit that it is his own problem? Admit that it has spread, how can it be easy to find the next one? Therefore, keeping silent may just be worried that telling the truth will be despised.
Of course, in addition to the above, there is also the possibility of letting go of the past and not wanting to recall.
There are a lot of reasons to give you some takeout. Maybe you are helpful to him at ordinary times and ask for takeout to repay you. Maybe I like you and want to be nice to you, but I'm too embarrassed to express it. Specifically, it is to synthesize the boy's daily performance and attitude towards you.