It is wrong for many people who read eight characters to abandon ten days of life and death.
Also, life is predestined and luck is man-made. In fact, you have to decide how to treat each other in the future. And, of course, what the other person will do to you in the future. Parents' resistance, all problems, are not problems in the end.
Also, a woman's horoscope has always been viewed from the perspective of her husband and son, and it is not appropriate to look at it separately. If he doesn't match your horoscope, it's likely that her pattern is not good with others.