Therefore, the ancients highly praised the life of "longevity and preparedness". In fact, modern people are the same. Who doesn't want to live a carefree and happy life? But whether a person is blessed or not, there will still be great differences between ancient people and modern people in specific understanding. The reason is that the ancients were much purer than today. At the same time, the traditional cultural concepts in ancient China told people to be "content"; It is necessary to "preserve righteousness and destroy human desires", because the ancients also knew that human desires are endless, and the so-called "desire is difficult to level."
As for women, because women in ancient society did not participate in social affairs and had no independent occupation; Of course they understand the blessings, which makes it easier. That is, "the husband teaches the child", "the wife takes the husband as the pro, and the mother is proud of the child"; Of course, you can enjoy the wealth and splendor they bring you, and you must live as long as possible.
In other words, first of all, husband and wife are in harmony; Secondly, the husband is healthy and longevity; And as. For example, if a husband has fame and status, he can "get expensive because of his husband." In addition, even if she has a son, it is best to have a full house of children and grandchildren; Not only do you have many sons, but you are also talented, capable and famous. You can be proud of yourself. Therefore, this "blessing" is first of all "the blessing of master"; It also points to the blessing of wealth. It means that not only the master, husband and son can live a long and healthy life; At the same time, the husband and son have money and status; Or you can enjoy yourself if you are famous.
But the understanding of modern people may be different. For example, the happiness of modern women's life and understanding may be food, beautiful clothes, virtuous husbands and loving couples. Another example: a husband will not change his mind if he has money, and he can control himself if he has money; Some even think that the best husband listens to himself in everything, and it is best to have no temper; Earn more outside, and do all the housework at home by yourself; Go out in dignity and be respected everywhere; It is better for a husband to be an official, and it is better to make a fortune if he is not an official, so that he can have face.
Do you think this understanding can be realized in reality? To put it simply, all day long, it is an acre of land in his family, which revolves around pots and pans all day long. Can such a person achieve anything? Can you make contributions? Besides, you should be considerate and gentle, and revolve around you all day; Isn't it too much to ask a man to succeed in his career? Because, career success needs personality, ambition and struggle.
So some people say that in ancient times, such a female life may be easy to find; In modern society, I am afraid it is difficult to achieve. A fundamental reason is that ancient women respected "three obedience and four virtues", paid little attention to their own personal gains and losses, were easy to satisfy themselves, and their happiness would be much stronger than that of modern women. Think about these female friends around you. How many people would consider themselves "ready for a long life"? Including your female elders, is it much? Even if you think she is happy, do you ask her if she is really satisfied with her present life? Are you satisfied with her life? The answer she promised you will be beyond your expectation. I will even list the first, second, third and fourth, all kinds of sufferings, all kinds of grievances, all kinds of sufferings and all kinds of grievances for you.
In fact, this thing in life will inevitably have such defects and regrets. How can you be happy if you care too much about personal gains and losses? A person who never knows how to be satisfied will never be happy. Maybe she has money and status, and her spiritual life is satisfied. What disappointments did you ask her? He may say, my husband is not good to me, my husband is careless and doesn't know how to take care of people; In other words, my son is busy working outside all day, and he doesn't know to call me every few days to say hello.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with her marriage, no divorce, no widowhood, many sons, and good economic conditions. It turns out that her dissatisfaction stems from comparison with others. Once she takes advantage of her shortcomings, she is better than others. Isn't it painful to compare?
Compared with money, Zhang San's wife is richer than her; Compared with officials, Li Si's husband is a big official; Compared with the house, the villa that Li and Wang's wife now live in is much bigger than their own. Compared with his son, someone else's son went to Tsinghua, and his son only attended two ordinary colleges and universities; Her husband has obviously retired, and she is still complaining that her husband is worthless; In that case, something should be done.
Therefore, now we have to look at this woman's life "to live a long life", but also look at one point, that is, this person should know how to cherish happiness and know that happiness is around, but it can never be "satisfied". A person who truly knows how to cherish happiness, even through hardships, can be regarded as "a long life without borders" as long as he and his family are healthy and disease-free. As for the status and fame of husband and children, those are all things outside the body, which are dispensable. Some are icing on the cake, and none is harmless. Live with dignity, respect and value.
Speaking of numerology, let's take a look at the specific discussion on the numerology characteristics of "longevity and preparedness" in Eight Cases of Female Destiny:
"Fu Fushou two people guard against, natural, and pure pattern. If you enjoy life, you will never get old. What if this is the case? I am sitting in a bustling town, connected with the moon, and the cadres complement each other. I also bring money, officials and seals, each in his place. I can't take off my money, leave a bad impression, or hurt an official. I especially like gourmets and chefs. If you are prosperous and practice enriching the people and eating the countryside, this is a life that is both longevity and longevity. "
Such as Women's Life: Wu Bing, Gengzi, Xinyou and Guisi. Xin sits alone, specializing in self-glory, and returns to the son as the god of food, the birthday girl, and the son star to get the land. Xin used C fire as an official, and C Lu returned to three, which was the land for Fuxing. Born in November, it is the image of golden white water. The branches and stems complement each other and do not hurt. Therefore, the main beauty is right, the main check, and the longevity is also prepared. I imitate this push. "
The focus of the above discussion is: "neutral in nature and pure in pattern", which is the eight characters of the discussion. As for: "Enjoy life, and you will never get old", these are two realistic expressions to prepare for a long life. Then, discuss how to realize these eight words and the specific requirements for trunk and branch allocation. For example, "sitting in a bustling town, connected with the moon, the cadres and the branches complement each other, and carrying the official seal of finance, each in its place."
The requirements of transportation, that is, "no money, no bad seal, no combination into a bureau that hurts officials" and so on. For example, the female life in the case. The main yen of life is the heart, which is a combination of cadres and support. Naturally, it is not weak. Of course, it is not prosperous, and it is also neutral. Being born in the second month is Jin Xin's longevity, even if it is ventilated this month. The eight-character middle-aged column is officially out of work, Lu is there, sitting in the prosperous land, and Fuxing is even neutral; Female life in the season, dry, self-sufficient; However, it did not reach a very prosperous level, but only belonged to the neutral gas of Wangfang.
As far as life is concerned, the female life is a god of food, with golden white water and no soil in the middle; When the fire is dry and warm, the temperature is golden and the weather is suitable; Fire and water can also help each other, so there is no harm to each other. The reason is that in 2008, when fire C and water GUI were launched, each had its own position and performed its own duties. In addition, women's lives are also carried all the way. The Reform Movement of 1898, Ding You, Bing Shen, Yi Wei, Gui Si, all have deep affection for the master. Therefore, a woman's life is to prepare for a long life. As for hibiscus and purple laurel, it is reflected in: when you are an official star, you sit on the official star; When the branch has been the financial director of the children; A woman's life is blessed because Guan Lu sits in Guan Lu, and Zi Xing also sits in Guan Lu; This place has become a place where women can live forever Because, women's lives can be the same.
This is the most commonly used method for the ancients to discuss fate. But the author, who has also seen many numerology analysts today, thinks that this constellation has another analysis:
For example, some people say, "This character is described by the author as two preparations for longevity. He also didn't say that he rushed directly to the official star of Fire C in February. Geng Xin didn't say that the Japanese branch and the local branch would become gold bureaus. Do you think the author's analysis is reliable? " In fact, this is a common problem of many modern numerology analysts. What is really unreliable should be such an analyst. Because they are always self-righteous. Once you see the rush, you must think that there must be harm; Once you see convergence, you think it is convergence.
For example, this character, the combination of C and Xin, is considered to be melting when the moon is on the horizon; Purple water rushed to the base of fire C, which was Foucault; We will discuss it when the ground support is integrated; So, they thought, how can these eight characters prepare for a long life? The above view is wrong. The reason is that the combination of C and Xin is impossible. Because C fire has a strong foundation and great independence in both places; Moreover, Jin Xin also has its own strong foundation, and it is even more impossible to talk about it.
At the same time, the eight-character neutron water rushed at noon, but it still can't be said that this rush extinguished the fire of C, because it is not the same thing for the fire of C to sit in the afternoon and hide Ding. Not to mention, there is still time to let C fire return to Lu. This kind of rush can only be said to be mutual assistance. As the ancients discussed, the relationship between Bingwu and Renzi seems to be the same, but under the same circumstances, no one can destroy anyone, and everyone will be influenced by each other, so take the sum. It is similar to what the ancients said, "negative yin embraces yang, and rushing into the air thinks peace", which is a truth.
In addition, how to combine the harmony of this eight characters? I don't know why this gentleman came to this conclusion. For another example, there is such a female life in "The Spirit of Heaven" created by Kun: Wu Yin, Good News, Xin Chou. When the Lord walks in the golden wealth of the west. His husband made a fortune and gave birth to three sons, all of whom became nobles. Finally, it was sealed by the court. His sons are many and expensive, and he has his own identity, which is regarded as "longevity for two preparations".
Some people say: "These eight characters are rushing every day, and she can live a long life." ? He also said, "obviously, the sun branch is a positive blade, so if the positive blade encounters an impact, can there be no disaster?" ? Also, the official star did not appear, what husband, moon column, yin and dry. Where is Mu Wuxing's home? At the end of the day, it belongs to the library. Then this ebony has been returned to the library. Can punishment be washed away? Aren't you hurt? That won't hurt. In that case, the ugliness of the day has not washed away the library. Where is the blessing of my husband not going home?
This ugly scene in Japan has not been washed away, and it is not only the couple's palace supported by Japan that is injured in the library, but also the children's palace. Where did the three sons get the money? "Then, he said," It is better to have books than no books ". You see, the above analysis is correct, right? Certainly not, but some people are just self-righteous. Why? Originally, the ancients always said that there was no sharp edge in the sun, but theorists insisted on their own subjectivity and arbitrariness, insisting that such a rush would damage women's life. At the same time, I also believe that this rush will definitely wash away my husband and children. This is complete nonsense. Say bad words, is the commentator, almost don't know what is good, what is affectionate.
Female life, day dry Ding Huo, born in the year of Yinyue and Yinnian, month dry and wear armor, moon column Jiayin, stem and branch blend, mutual strength, endless strength. At the same time, Ding Huo did not sit down, and this kind of true qi is rooted in sitting down, so it is not weak. Generally speaking, although women's life is not rich, the overall lifestyle is still rich; The biggest disease of the eight characters is that there are too many stars printed. Therefore, in the eight characters of a woman's life, God's greatest use is when she is doing Jin Xin, and XiShen is of course the time when she is ugly.
This eight-character character can be established through his analysis of Ding, if there is no time column and ugliness. I'm afraid I have no children or even a husband. The reason is very simple, this kind of impulse belongs to emotional impulse. It is precisely because of this rush that the control over the uncultivated land of Shuangyinmu was kept, and it is also because of this rush that the ugly neutron Shuifu star rushed in. Without this rush, a woman's life would not be so blessed. So there are ugliness, ignorance, Xinhai and official seal, and women's lives have experienced bitterness.
Once the Universiade entered, Geng Xu, Ji You and Wushen, their husbands were developed, their children were successful, and their lives naturally enjoyed happiness. Therefore, it is said in "The Spirit of Heaven" that God is the husband and the Western God is the son. Is to beat Jin Xin for her husband and ugly soil for her son. The analysis of women's longevity is valid.
In addition, the eight characters represent longevity, mainly yinxing and Gourmet. As long as the sun shines, the moon is alive, the stars are printed around the sun, and the financial officials are attracted by the sun, which is the performance of longevity. Still a god of food, when he returned to Lu, he was pure and neutral; Such a woman's life means that she has no worries about food and clothing, lives comfortably and enjoys a noble life and happiness.
Why is there such a statement? As the old saying goes, the god of food is also a chef. Representing the star of longevity, people who eat God's mind at the same time are broad-minded, fat, tasteful, kind-hearted and broad-minded. Printing a star, the main character is weak, and it becomes a star; He is kind-hearted and charitable, but also for talent and for Kangning. However, we must distinguish one thing: the sun is strong and the body is strong. At this time, the god of food is the birthday boy and the blessing god, such as the previous example 2 and example 1.