Some people have lost their original freshness after being married for a long time, or the couple have lived in different places for a long time and are used to living alone, or because they have children, they sleep in separate beds in order not to disturb their children's rest.
But no matter what the original intention of sleeping in separate beds is, many couples have a huge contradiction because of sleeping in separate beds. I got used to it when I was separated, and finally my feelings gradually faded.
There are also many such couples in Bianxiao. At first, a fierce quarrel broke out because of a little contradiction. Later, in a rage, they slept in separate beds. As everyone knows, this has laid the groundwork for their unfortunate marriage in the future, and their feelings are getting weaker and weaker. If there were no children involved, their marriage would have existed in name only.
So, what's the harm of sleeping in separate beds?
1, reduce contact with children
Let's talk about the influence of sleeping in separate beds on children. Many couples sleep in separate beds because they have children. In the first year of a child's life, it is very hard to take care of the child. In order not to affect their husbands' rest and keep their energy the next day, many couples decide to sleep in separate beds.
However, the consequence of this is that the husband can't see his wife's efforts and can't feel the hardships of his wife taking care of the baby. Over time, he will not be close to his children and turn a blind eye to everything his wife has paid.
2, affecting health
When couples live together, they will encounter many things, such as the increase of family chores and the handling of interpersonal relationships. These things can only be finally agreed by the husband and wife through consultation. Based on this, they are bound to bear great mental pressure, and those couples who sleep in separate beds have less physical contact and communication with each other, and can't release and relieve the pressure in time, resulting in their own physical and mental injuries to varying degrees.
So those couples who sleep in separate beds spend a little longer together and communicate less with each other. Everyone has something hidden in his heart, and if he can't vent it in time, it will inevitably have an impact on his body.
3, affect the relationship between husband and wife
The third point is the biggest harm of sleeping in separate beds.
Being able to get married must be because of a great fate, which prompted two people to come together. Generally speaking, women live inside and men live outside, because life circles are different and busy during the day. Only in the evening will two people have contact, which is also the best time to open up and talk.
If you sleep in separate beds, there is no intersection between husband and wife, and even less and less common language. In the evening, no one talks to anyone, and they lie in bed and play with their mobile phones. Slowly, the feelings between husband and wife will fade.