Men's dedication to work is always heavier than women's, and fathers' energy is more focused on their work, so naturally there is less communication with their daughters. I often find that my daughter has serious problems, which angered my father. The father has no time to sit down and talk with his daughter to find out what the child is thinking. Instead, I suddenly stood in front of my daughter and unilaterally accused. In the eyes of her daughter, all the appearances of her father mean a "disaster". Don't talk about communicating with your father. Even together, it is full of rejection.
Father prefers his son to his daughter.
China is still heavily patriarchal. He thinks that if he has a daughter, he will get married sooner or later. Now he only needs to feed and warm his daughter, and all other spiritual concerns are not a problem. There is a father who prefers boys to girls. He usually doesn't like his daughter's behavior. Not only does he not communicate with his daughter, but he may also use verbal violence and force. Meeting her father is not like meeting the enemy of a weak daughter.
Father is too serious.
Some fathers are naturally serious and unsmiling. Although I love my daughter very much, I am not good at expressing myself, just like Xiaolan's father. Moreover, the father thinks that even his own daughter, there are differences between men and women, and he doesn't know how to communicate with his daughter or what to communicate with. Over time, although there is no big contradiction between father and daughter, they can't always be close.
4. Father is irresponsible
Although my father was a father for the first time, he inevitably made some mistakes when he was young. For example, divorcing his wife, abandoning his wife and daughter, etc., but in the process, his daughter suffered injustice and pain. There is only hatred for her father in her heart. Of course, it is impossible to talk openly with her father.