What should I do if my lover and I have children?

What is the situation of the child now? Is it pregnancy? Or have you already been born? If you are pregnant, you'd better not. There are many ways of painless abortion now, and a good rest for the woman will not hurt her health. Because this child was born out of wedlock, and this disgraceful birth will accompany him all his life. Even if he gets ahead in the future, the process of growing up is extremely difficult, which is unfair to a child who cannot choose to be born! Even if you and your lover keep saying that it is true love, it is also a debt owed to your child, so that the child will bear the fingers of others around him from birth! So, if the child is not born, let the child slip away! If it is already born, let it be a married child! The child is innocent!