Destiny is doomed, but there is no trace. Names are personal carriers, bearing personal honor and disgrace and guiding personal direction. There is indeed a relationship between the two that cannot be explained by science. Psychologists believe that "the reason why names affect people is because there is an expectation in the individual's heart." There are so-called beliefs, and if they don't believe them, there will be no;
This reflects a cognitive feature of China people, that is, they believe in situational determinism. Undeniably, a good name does have a positive influence on people. Its function is not only a good wish for the present individual, but also a psychological hint for the individual. At the same time, your personal name will also affect others' judgment on your first contact.
But it is not absolute, the so-called life is made by yourself. In contrast, personal morality, words and deeds, cultivation, etc. Often more important to the fate of life.
Detailed explanation
In the early years of the Northern Song Dynasty, there was a prime minister named Lv Mengzheng. He believed in personal fate and thought that "a horse can travel a thousand miles, but it can't walk without riding; People have ambition, but they can't stand on their own feet without luck. They firmly believe that "if people don't follow the basic eight characters, it is difficult to be intimate with others";
By analyzing the fate of Confucius, Taigong, Yan Yuan, Yao Di, Gu Sou, Sean, Xiao He, Yan Zi, Kong Ming, Xiang Yu, Liu Bang, Li Guang, Feng Tang and Han Xin, he thinks that "human nature is precious to me and beyond my power, which is also a kind of time, luck and fate." Nevertheless, it is not absolutely immutable;
As Yi Chuan Gan said, "Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement." Life lies in self-reliance and hard work, so that we can change our destiny and move towards success.