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After the baby is born, many parents regard the child as a tool to compare with others. Children turning over, walking and talking are all topics that parents discuss with each other. When a child's physical development is higher than other children's, family members will feel complacent, while when the child's physical condition is good, his development is worse than other children's, and parents will secretly lose. This is also the idea of many parents.
In particular, some children's language ability develops late, others will write a sentence, and their children will only speak a few words. For parents, this is also a very anxious problem. Some people even think that this is a low IQ.
Just because of the low education, the child speaks late, and the mother-in-law is accused of delaying her grandson's IQ.
My best friend Tingting has been complaining to me recently that Qiqi is three years old, but she can only play two words. Every three-year-old child can speak fluent language, but her own child speaks it so late. Even my mother-in-law is very good, always blaming herself for this, saying that my son has a postgraduate degree and his IQ is absolutely good. My wife has a low education. Is it because children talk late and their IQ is related?
Tingting was even more angry when her girlfriend heard her mother-in-law talk like this, but the child didn't have time to talk and really didn't know what to do.
In fact, the length of children's speaking time is not directly related to IQ. The American Parenting Association found in a survey that 62 children with language development disorders were selected. Only one child has a low IQ, and there is little difference among the other children. A three-year-old child said, "It's not that I can't speak. As soon as I opened my mouth, my mother made me confess. Too tired. " We were shocked to hear the child's answer. This is because children have low IQ and high IQ.
So some children develop their language very late. What factors are related to this?
1. External reasons
After a child is born, if he is often influenced by the language environment, he will gradually cultivate language awareness and learn to express himself in the process of growth and development.
This is also an "inertial reflex", which means that children are sent abroad after birth and will accept a foreign language when they grow up. Therefore, external language stimulation is closely related to children's language growth and development, which is an important relationship. The more conversations with children, the more children can hear language communication, which is also an important means for children to learn. speak
2. Internal reasons
Some children's slow language development has an important relationship with their own situation. For example, some children have language barriers due to physical discomfort, such as throat discomfort and abnormal brain development.
Or children with hearing impairment can't tell, some children have low self-esteem, are unwilling to express their inner self, neglect exercise, and their language ability will be relatively poor.
How to guide children to speak early?
1. cyclic stimulation method
Parents will be more willing to accept this learning method if they repeat the same words or use games or toys as auxiliary tools. They will unconsciously enter the brain to form a concept, and then reflect it through language.
2. Toy guiding method
There are many children's toys on the market now, including Tang poems, nursery rhymes and poems. When children play with toys, they will also hear about learning knowledge, which will make it easier for children to learn.
3. Dialogue guidance methods
A good language environment plays an important role in children's language communication. We can usually guide children to talk, ask them questions and communicate with them. When creating this language atmosphere, children can also learn to speak.
Candy mother reminds everyone that some children have a late language development, but they don't know anything inside. They have a certain cognitive ability. Parents need not worry too much about this. Of course, if the baby can't say a word at the age of one and a half, or can't say a word at the age of three, parents will take the child to the hospital for examination.
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