1.
Shawn Yue is married.
This suddenly reminds me of a question, "Is there an age to get married?"
In many previous articles, it was said that "there is no age to get married, only feelings to get married". It seems that I really want to believe it, but when I look around, everyone is still married at the age of marriage.
Nowadays, Jay Chou has both sons and daughters, and his father loves his daughter like a mountain. Even Edison Chen, who is rebellious, has started to take photos of her daughter on ins frequently, which is so soft.
Those who once loved each other vigorously did not get married, and many unforgettable ones were also washed away by fate. So were so many long-distance lovers who stopped at a fork in the road.
probably a lot of people have to admit. It's not the deepest person in your heart who will join hands with you in the wedding hall.
She is not the one who naughty dragged her ponytail when you were in seed of love. She is not the one who accompanied you through thick and thin at the lowest point of your life. She is not the one who makes you jealous when you smile.
it's better to come early. Feelings are not about feelings, but about luck.
adults are good at making excuses for themselves. Knowing that there are no memories that don't change in this life, it is not a natural match, and you can find a justified reason to call it appropriate.
2.
The word fit is terrible and cold.
Age, wealth, appearance, background, and even birthdates should all be counted. Maturity is called when rationality prevails over sensibility.
The so-called appropriateness is probably to swallow the blood of the past silently, put away the feelings that are unreasonable and don't care about gains and losses, pick out the love state that may collapse at any time, and live with caution, just like an exam.
In order to get a high score and make others happy, I can no longer be willful, and I can no longer say anything and be crazy.
People say that marriage is about two people living together. The subtext is to save the cost of living, better division of labor and create greater value by integrating resources, which is what we often say, to live a better life.
So love is not marriage, and it is difficult for real love to get married. When I was young and frivolous, unbridled love hurt each other and tortured each other to the fullest. Later, I found that pure love is the unbearable weight in life.
Then, when I am tired, I am forced to restrain myself, learn to be humble, learn to think for others, learn to turn a blind eye, and learn not to expect too much.
The person who came later, she can't get your most ardent love. You keep your temper and learn to run a relationship.
3.
Time is changing, so are people. Only the right person at the right time, nothing else.
When you were still wearing your school uniform, you met a warm, bright, interesting and sunny person.
At that time, everyone said that puppy love was wrong, and all of them were not together. If we meet a few years later, maybe it's a sweet couple, planning surprises for each other from time to time and exploring their favorite places together.
When you were curious about the world, you met a affectionate, steady, thoughtful and busy person.
He has planned the future very clearly, cared for you, and began to include you in his own planning. But this is not the vigorous love you want, not together. A few years have passed, and after talking about several empty love affairs, you begin to reminisce about the person you met at the beginning.
some people meet too early, while others meet too late.
that sentence is just right, that is fate.
4.
"Just right" isn't really just right, and in many cases, it's just convincing yourself to comfort yourself for life.
It's also like a preset. At the beginning of a new life, I tell myself and the whole world over and over again that this person is the one who wants to spend the rest of my life with me, and she should be the most suitable. After a long time, she has gradually become the most suitable, as long as her obsession is heavy enough.
In fact, we also know that there may be a more suitable existence in the vast sea of people, and we can never conclude that this person must be the most suitable one.
However, compared with the uncertainty and the boundless sea of variables, we are too small to accept the person who is pushed to us by fate, and there is nothing wrong with it. Time is up, and I don't want to look for it again. That's it.
swear at the wedding that "wealth or poverty, health or sickness, till death do us part".
Then I will start a new learning direction, the way of getting along with husband and wife, the rules of communication, etc. I still hope to hand over a satisfactory answer sheet to my life.
Fate is really a mysterious thing. She gives you a hand and gives you room to play. But often, when you are full of ambitions, it throws you an unavoidable ending.
The appearance order in love determines your position and your meaning. Fate has arranged for you to be a passer-by, so you can't stay until the end. Fate says that you are a returnee, and you can get back after thousands of turns.
Being sober is also drunk, and you can understand when you are drunk. This life is nothing more than experience. Love, hate, bitterness, joy, sorrow and joy will eventually disperse.
it was a happy event, but it gave birth to a strong sense of powerlessness.
END is full of nonsense.