Qi Wei has a very happy family, but she is the only one who makes money in this family. Stephy entered the entertainment circle through the talent show My Show. In recent years, he has successfully become an actor and singer, and he is also a powerful singer with good singing skills. A few years ago, she married Korean actor Li Chengxuan, which can be said to be a very famous transnational couple. Children can play soy sauce now. I have to say that Qiwei is really a winner in life. After having children, she has returned to the entertainment circle. It even becomes more and more beautiful. Now she is developing smoothly in the circle. When she returned to this circle, many people were questioning. Doesn't Nathan Scott Lee work at home? Why is Stephy the only one making money outside?
Actually, it's not. They have lived happily for many years. Whenever Qiwei loses her temper, Li Chengxuan will give in first and coax Stephy like a child. It is precisely because of this that this family is particularly happy. When two people have the crystallization of love, Stephy and Li Chengxuan have to sacrifice one's career in order to make their children grow up more happily, which is also to spend more time with their children. In fact, there are many female stars in the circle who choose to fade out of the entertainment circle after marriage. But in the eyes of a strong woman like Stephy, it doesn't matter inside or outside, as long as she is happy. In fact, Li Chengxuan is also a very considerate wife. He knew that Stephy worked hard outside, so when a reporter asked Nathan Scott Lee about his monthly expenses, Li Chengxuan told the reporter directly that the monthly expenses at home were less than 50,000, which might surprise ordinary people, but for celebrity families, the expenses were already under control.
Those excellent parents, they often educate excellent children. So what kind of parents are good parents? In fact, it is not difficult to be a good parent, as long as you give your children high-quality companionship.
1. Why do children need company?
For children, the company of parents is always the happiest moment, because children are still young and need a sense of security most, if parents can accompany him intimately. This can meet children's needs for security, and children are deeply dependent on their parents before puberty. And those excellent parents, they often give their children high-quality companionship and regard their children as independent individuals. They know how to respect and understand children. Parents always think about what their children want to do and like, starting from their real needs. This is high-quality companionship. Some parents always think that high-quality companionship is high-quality output, but it is not. Companionship is only emotional companionship. Parents can't just pay attention to their children's academic performance. If parents only pay attention to children's memorization of words and poems, it can't be said to be high-quality companionship, but utilitarian companionship.
2. How to achieve high-quality companionship
If you want to be a high-quality partner, you must do the following. First of all, parents should actively interact with their children. When parents accompany their children, their manners should not be fixed, but should be gradually adjusted according to their age and preferences. It is necessary not only to guide children to establish correct values, but also to leave room for independent thinking. Secondly, people can't just be with their children, but their hearts are in places like mobile phones, which ignores the real needs of children from the heart. Parents and children are together, so that they can respond to children's topics in time and quickly, so that they can establish a sense of security and trust between parents and children. This will enable children to learn and develop new knowledge better. Finally, you must really have someone to accompany you. People often say that companionship is the truest confession. In fact, the same is true of educating children. It is not enough if the company is only the company of children. Still have to concentrate on playing, but parents should not bother, but parents should respond in time if their children have needs. Parents and children should play and think together. This is the truest companionship.
True loving companionship is not what parents need to do, but what parents do when their children need it. At any time, parents should be willing to accompany their children, which is the high-quality companionship.