The things that men and women need to prepare for an engagement are different.
1. When getting engaged, the man needs to buy gifts for the woman, such as gold jewelry, wedding cakes, gift boxes, wedding candies, fruits, etc. He also needs to buy wedding cigarettes, wedding wine, fireworks and firecrackers and other items for the engagement party. Light it before proceeding to add to the festive atmosphere.
2. The general engagement banquet is held at the woman’s home, so the woman needs to purchase banquets, tobacco, alcohol, wedding candies and other items. The woman also needs to buy gifts for the man, such as clothes, shoes, etc., which need to be handed over to the man on the day of the engagement.
3. Before getting engaged, you need to reasonably choose the items you need to buy based on local customs and economic conditions, and do not increase the burden on your family or parents. It is best to buy items in even numbers when getting engaged, which means they come in pairs, which is more auspicious.