However, for your partner, I think it is still necessary to divide it. Don't be nostalgic, he doesn't deserve to be a man. "He won't answer, send him a text message, and he won't return." If you are a man, how can you do this to you? Shit is worse than things! If you stay with him, I don't think he will be good to you there in the future. There will always be unpleasant moments in life, and things like pigs and dogs will definitely blame you for bringing him bad luck.
Break up with such people as soon as possible and be happy as soon as possible. I know you still have him in your heart now, and you can't change him for a while. But you have to think about your future happiness. You can't give your happiness to a person who won't rely on his own efforts, but only on his birthday.