This friend must be in a lot of pain. People are born by fate, and they have entangled grudges and grudges with various people. Those who have a deep fate become a family, and those who have a shallow fate become a family. Become a passer-by.
Being able to have a relationship between mother-in-law, father-in-law and daughter-in-law is a great fate, but there are only four kinds of fate: repaying kindness, revenge, paying off debts, and collecting debts.
But no matter which one it is, it is too close. If it is not handled well, it will be mixed with grudges, including you and your husband.
Time will reveal the facts bit by bit. If you want to gain freedom and happiness, you need mutual understanding and tolerance.
People who are caught up in emotions and family are prone to change. One day they will be able to communicate, the next they will be blocked, they will laugh today and cry tomorrow.
If you really feel in pain and want to change your destiny, then I will tell you about numerology.
First of all, let’s talk about destiny. It is divided into two types. The first one is innate. As everyone knows, the birth date, plum blossoms are easy to count, purple and micro bucket numbers, etc. are a mark of innateness. The so-called three talents, heaven, earth and people are closely related
The ancients were very wise and used "skills" to calculate the consequences of the person's innate actions, so there was Destiny the day after tomorrow.
This is the second type of nurture. The acquired is just a passive or active choice based on the innate.
(Of course, if you want to influence or change the innate karma through acquired efforts, Power is not easy and most people cannot do it)
The famous great siddha Padmasambhava in history once said: If you want to know your past life, take a look at your current situation; Know your future life and look at your current actions - from the Tibetan Book of Life and Death.
There is a "secret" in the fortune-telling industry that is not known to outsiders
That is, it is not recommended to give fortune-telling to family members, because once you become a monk, the day after tomorrow will change too much, and the yang and yin fortunes will change too much. Most of them can't hold themselves back. No matter how correct your calculations are, they are innate and can easily annoy others and hurt your moral integrity.
If you are very distressed and want to change your innate destiny, then this must not be forced by external things. Rather, it is to follow the heaven and the earth, which is what the ancients often said is to be virtuous, and then to recognize the essential truth and gain perfect wisdom.
There are two classic cases that you can check on Baidu, the story of Yuan Liaofan and the story of Ksitigarbha Qi.
One of these two is ancient and the other is modern. I hope it will be helpful to you. If you have any questions, you can ask me.