I can see from your speech that you are a man.
If you are a man, look at yourself every day. Look at the relationship between Japanese support (wife's wealth) and moon column (spouse's palace).
You say, if you are partial to wealth, let's see if your wealth and your wife are harmonious and see which one is prosperous. Maybe having an affair,
It's hard to say clearly because what you say is so general.
As for the injury to an official, it is not your wife's wealth that is affected.