Generally speaking, when a child is born, his parents will give him two names, one is the first name, and the other is the birth name, also known as the nickname. Before children go to school, parents and elders will habitually call their children's birth names to show their closeness, so many people may walk around the community like a mother, and they can hear all kinds of birth names.
after careful inquiry, these nicknames really have many interesting origins. For example:
Mom likes carrots very much during pregnancy, and the baby is called "carrot" after birth.
My father's surname is Huang, and my son was directly called "Little Soybean" after he was born.
Mom is a Taobao fan, and her biggest hobby is buying in buy buy. After her daughter was born, she didn't come up with a nice baby name for a long time. Later, her father had a brainwave and simply called it "Taobao"!
When the baby was born, it weighed 7 kg and 7 liang, so "Zhang Qiqi" was a big name, and "Qiqi" naturally became a baby name.
The father's surname is Yuan, and the child is the treasure of the whole family, so the baby's nickname becomes Yuan (Yuan) Bao.
If the above ideas of choosing a baby name are still normal, then the sharing of the following netizens will really make Dou Ma laugh at her abdominal muscles:
William Feng, an actor, revealed his son's nickname as "Think" in an interview, and many netizens teased, is this because he hasn't decided what his name is?
There was also a poll on "Your Preference for Naming Children" in Weibo. Among the 7, participants, more than half of them chose overlapping words for naming their children, followed by fruit department and local flavor department.
In addition, the repeated names of babies have also aroused heated discussion among netizens. Some people say that there are three "small grapes", two "small lemons", four "peas" and two "roundness" in their own community alone.
Some people expressed their dissatisfaction, saying that Xiaobao should be the most common one around them, while others mentioned nicknames of "rotten streets" such as Tiantian, Lele and Duoduo.
In Dou Ma's view, although nicknames are not as "formal" as big names, and may be gradually ignored as children grow up, nicknames are also irreplaceable for children, because this seemingly simple name contains parents' intimacy and love for them.
A nice nickname will remind children that they grew up with a loving parent, which will make them feel safe. What should I pay attention to when giving my child a baby name?
1. Avoid highly duplicated names
Highly duplicated names often encounter two dilemmas, one is embarrassment, and the other is comparison.
If two or more children in a group have the same name, parents will be embarrassed to shout, and when the children grow up, they will feel a little twisted when they meet each other.
Secondly, two children with the same name will always be involuntarily "contested" in terms of appearance, personality, family background and other aspects. Once they are inferior to each other, it will easily hit the children's self-esteem and cause them to feel sensitive and inferior.
2. Avoid too tacky baby names
The "tacky" here refers to some parents' overly adult wishes. For example, they want to be promoted and rich, so they named their children "lucky" and they want to have another boy, so they named their daughters "Zhao Di" and so on.
Such a name can easily reveal the selfishness of parents, and when the children are older, they will also have a rejection of their birth names.
3. Avoid strange and funny things
Some parents think that popular names are not new, so they want to give their children a unique "birth name". First, they will not have the same name; Second, shouting can attract people's attention. I don't know that such "alternative" names often make children the object of jokes.
Mrs. Dou has seen funny baby names such as "Bomb", "Steel shovel" and "Tripod Cat". These names are barely acceptable when children are young, but once children are old, calling them by classmates will inevitably make fun of them. Children are cheerful and extroverted. If children are introverted and do not like to express themselves, they will easily be hit by this ridicule, making their hearts more fragile.
4. Avoid birth names with excessive gender and personality contrast
If a child is mischievous and noisy from an early age, it is inappropriate for parents to give him a "quiet". If a boy is born, his parents name him "Xinxin", and a girl is born, his parents name him "Zhuangzhuang", which is also inappropriate. Contrastive names will attract a lot of discussion to children, and children themselves will be ashamed to tell others their names.
the correct way to open a baby name
1. Commemorative
Nowadays, many parents will take their children's birth date and season as their baby names, such as "September" and "Summer Solstice", which are both pleasant to hear and memorable.
2.? It has something to do with parents' beliefs
Once, a father nicknamed his daughter "Chuxin", and his reason was that he wanted his daughter to be "Do not forget your initiative mind and so as to achieve your final goal". This sentence is also his own belief. Does it sound meaningful?
3.? It makes people feel happy
Such names are often very loud and sunny, which will give people a happy feeling, such as "happy", "sunflower", "little sun" and "sparkling".
For a family, the birth name is the most direct care and care given to children by relatives. For a child, the birth name is the most cordial call of parents and elders. No matter how old it is, this name is always the softest place in parents' hearts and the most beautiful voice.
what is your child's nickname? Is there any interesting origin of this name? Welcome to share in the message area.