Is it better to name the girl Yuan Shiran or Yuan Man?

Yuan Shi ran 92 points

Poetry: versatile, well-founded, prosperous in official career, prosperous in middle age, the word of going abroad. (gold)

Born: born smart, elegant and noble, lucky in middle age, prosperous in old age and good environment. (gold)

Yuan Man scored 63 points.

M: I have love troubles. I am weak and short-lived, and I can't be happy. I will remarry and be widowed and succeed in Longchang. (water)