Text/Maternal and Child Journals
Some people have already started to name their babies before they are born, and many parents even find some "experts" to help them name them, just to have a good name to accompany their children and wish them a lifetime. However, there are also many people whose parents' surnames are rare and unique, but they are worried about themselves!
If the surname is Li, Zhang, Sun, etc., you can easily find your favorite name, but what if the surname is scolding? It is estimated that it is the first time for many people to hear about it. At this time, it doesn't feel good to name their children. Fortunately, the parents got twice the "happiness" and gave birth to twins at once! How to name a child? When we know the origin of surnames, we may have different ideas.
the source of surnames
surnames were different at the earliest time. At first, they were usually called so-and-so, and later they were named surnames. Until they were unified, surnames were mixed together, so the history of surnames was at least 5, years.
In the past, surnames mainly represented identity, which was the inheritance of blood, and surnames came from ancient totems and celestial phenomena, which was the expression of clan content. In ancient times, people who first called surnames were generally women, while men were called surname. Zheng Qiao's "Tongzhi? There are many surnames under the same surname.
Surnames can be said to be the embodiment of history. Different surnames reflect the history and culture at that time. Until the appearance of Hundred Surnames, surnames were clearly divided, and there began to be compound surnames, even three words, and sometimes there were no surnames. Dai people were one of them.
Surnames are also given by totems, ancestors, fiefs, mountains and rivers, rulers, etc., and some of them are used to avoid disasters and change their surnames, among which there are more than ten specific sources and many small branches. Up to now, all we know is to inherit the father's surname.
The source of "scolding" is literally the same!
In fact, the surname of cursing was Ma at the beginning, but when someone made a mistake, he angered the emperor, changed his surname to cursing in a rage, and even deprived him of his due rights.
From the above introduction, we also know that some surnames were given by the emperor, so this surname was passed down.
But now the name has been modified. At a very early time, the name "curse" was changed to "curse", which means to abandon the old ideas of the past and should have the rights that contemporary people should have. Now, some tribes with the surname of Xu are simple and enthusiastic, and in order to show respect, they have been approved and audited at different levels, and they have been included in the intangible cultural list.
Although people have long been able to distinguish right from wrong and have no prejudice about this surname, the word itself is controversial, and more often it is a derogatory term. It is really worrying for parents to want a nice name. Let's imagine, if Zhang San Li Si becomes, scold three, scold four! Suddenly I have a very strange feeling.
how to name a child!
But in any case, a name is always needed, and it's not good to let others call you by your surname in the future. Having a good name can not only avoid this embarrassment, but also give people the first impression, so you must consider it carefully.
1. Using online tools to name children
In the past, you had to ask the elderly or even the teachers of related majors to name your children, and some of the operations made modern people collapse long ago.
Now, you may only need a device with Internet access, and the name will be automatically generated by inputting the child's birthdates, family information, etc. This method saves a lot of time and gives parents with difficulty in choosing.
2. With the help of ancient poems
Our 5,-year-old culture is not just for us to remember. Among them, there are universities for us to learn, including naming, so many famous sayings and beautiful ancient poems. With the help of the words in them, we can even use them directly, such as Tu Youyou, Li Tianyi, Lu Geng, etc., and many famous people are named in this way.
3. It's pleasant to hear, easy to remember, and easy to read
Sometimes you really don't need to think too much about the name. As long as the name is smooth and you and others sound comfortable, it's a name. And sometimes a very simple name is more memorable because it is easy to remember!
4. Create your own
If parents in the past paid great attention to children's names, it even took some calculation to determine. So now parents may just split their own names and combine them into a new name, or if they have something that is of deep significance to their children or themselves, they will just name them for their children, which is also a souvenir. Isn't that what the name is? It is a deep blessing to children.
No one stipulates what you must do when naming a name, but there are also many pits that parents need to avoid, otherwise their quick success may bring their children a lifetime of "white eyes".
those jokes named
1. Names are too difficult!
Looking back at the roll call at school, I felt very much looking forward to it, whether I was roll calling myself or watching others roll calling. I met some students with unique names when I was looking forward to it. When I saw that the roll call was called wrongly or couldn't be called out, it would always cause the class to laugh. This is really a youthful memory.
But now, at work, sometimes you need to read your name, etc. At this time, it is easy to make a joke if you don't know each other. So try not to find some uncommon words when naming children.
2. The name is nice, but don't change its flavor
Another situation is that if you just look at the name, you will feel that it is a good name, whether it is moral or comfortable for others to call.
but once the surname is added, it's really a sharp turn. For example, a single name means one banknote, but what if it's Jia? It becomes "Jia Chao", and there are many others like this, so when naming a name, you must never separate the surname from the first name, and you must read it together, otherwise the child will leave you with a "white eye" to experience for yourself.
3. Don't be too unusual in your name!
In order to make their children have a different life, many parents seek to be different from their names. This may really attract others' attention, but it will only make others look at you with unusual eyes. It's fine if the names are used in normal words, but it's really uncomfortable to use uncommon words or even words with special meanings as metaphors! For example, a name that was once very popular was "King".
In any case, surnames can't be changed. Since we can't change them, we don't need to care, even if the surnames are special. As long as we name them seriously and normally, what will others say? Our names are a symbol of our own identity and value, not as a "burden"!