Parents should teach stubborn children well. Parents think that children in the sensitive period of order just create problems for no reason, which makes them impatient. Even if the child is stubborn and creates problems for his "improper" behavior for no reason, parents should take a cold treatment method to calm the child down first, and don't take the initiative to soften. After both sides calm down, they can reason with the child and let the child know that irrational behavior requires parents to analyze the reasons for the child's rebellion first, and then use the right drugs according to the child's actual situation and personality, so as to better correct the child's wayward problem. reprimand and abuse will make the child's thoughts incorrect and stubborn.
For example, when children eat, they don't steal adult jobs. Now, parents must patiently tell their children: "The child wants a big bowl for his father. Some children are too stubborn to hear anything. As long as parents don't obey their demands, they will cry, and they don't have to be stubborn to their parents. What should parents do for these disobedient and stubborn children? The child is disobedient. Therefore, parents should understand and tolerate their children's feelings and support them with love. In the face of rebellious and stubborn children, we should never try to control them by violence and simple and severe methods.
On the contrary, we must wisely help children to be separated by love. For children in this period, parents should not lose control of their emotions and violence. The most important thing is to understand why children have a "stubborn sensitive period" and why children are "stubborn". Only in this way can we grow up. Facing the needs of children, we must take care of them in principle. At the same time, we must realize that under certain conditions, unstable behavior is the result of parents' excessive tolerance and connivance to their children, and it is often formed slowly under the tolerance and connivance of parents.
People should not label them as "stubborn, whimsical, irritable, difficult to get along with and confrontational". Parents should never simply think that this is their stubbornness and stubbornness, forcing their children to obey our wishes. How should mothers face it? Should we treat children differently according to their different personalities and teach them in accordance with their aptitude, so that they like to cry? " Parents are the first teachers of the children.