A name is a symbol of a person, and it is also the only certificate of living in the world. Our country has a long cultural history, and there is a lot of emphasis on naming. Especially in our rural areas, naming children is very important. Not only should the names be sorted by generation, but also combined with the yin and yang and the five elements to give a good name that is both loud and safe. The popular saying in our rural areas is that "men do not bring heaven, and women do not bring immortals" is a way of saying this about naming.
Men don’t have the word Tian, ??and women don’t have the word Xian. As the name suggests, these two words are deliberately avoided when naming children in rural areas. Boys should not be named with the word Tian, ??and girls should not be named with it. Why do you say it with the word "fairy"?
This also has to do with the traditional thinking in our rural areas, because the older generation believes that the gods and immortals here are relatively big, and ordinary children are afraid that they cannot bear it. It will easily bring bad things to children. Of course, these are nonsense and have no scientific basis. These are the traditional feudal ideas of the older generations!
We have also said before Well, a person’s name is just a symbol, that is, a pronoun, and it has nothing to do with a person’s destiny. So I don’t think this saying has any truth. With the development of society, people’s thoughts are also Gradually, we can find that many children are not named according to their seniority, and there is nothing wrong with it.
When I think about the names of people in the village when I was a child, I have a lot of experience. People in that era believed that nicknames are good for fertility. Many people have particularly unpleasant names, such as Goudan, Gou Sheng, Shuan Zhu, Tiezhu, etc. Although girls' names are not that unpleasant, the repetition rate is too high, such as Shitou, etc. There are a lot of red, flower, and plum names in one village.
Some parents who save trouble simply name them according to their size, such as Dani, Erni, Sanni, etc. Nowadays, people are more particular about naming and have more meanings, so I think there is no need to be particular about naming. There are so many theories on the Five Elements, but we still need to have a nice, loud and meaningful name, don’t you think?