The girl sat at the writing desk, moved her exercise book and pen aside and cried at her mother, "Why did you choose such a difficult name?" He said, tears streaming down his face.
Then she asked her mother, why not call herself Xiaohua? Mom was in distress situation, so she put this video on the Internet. Unexpectedly, it caught the attention of netizens, and many netizens were distressed by this little girl.
Mom admitted to netizens: I didn't consider this aspect when I named my name, and I didn't teach her to write before.
Parents want to give their children a nice and meaningful name, but some words are often complicated in structure and have more strokes. This makes those children who have just learned to write their own names daunting and unable to write.
After all, now kindergartens don't teach children to read and write in order to follow the growth rules of children, so many times, children's names are written by parents. When children begin to hand in their homework in primary school, they have to write their own names themselves.
Names are things that accompany children all their lives, and good names can leave a good impression on others. In this regard, it is not easy for many parents to think hard about how many days and nights to give their children a good name.
1, with high rate of duplicate names.
The repetition rate of children's names is very common. If several children with the same name and surname go to school in the same place, it is easy to cause some misunderstandings. For example, when a teacher looks at one child's grades, another child thinks it's his own. I don't know whether to be happy or sad. Or when there are some embarrassing things about celebrities in some public places, it will also bring some embarrassment to yourself.
20 18, the local public security bureau announced "the most famous name". Among boys' names, "Ziyang" is the most popular name, with an average of 1000 boys and 1 named Ziyang. Among the girls' names, the most is "Qing Zi", with an average of 1 girl named Qing Zi. Not many people have the word "Zi" in their names.
There are too many people with some surnames.
Some surnames account for a large proportion in the whole group, and the repetition rate of names is high, which makes it more difficult to choose names. For example, Wang, Zhang, Li, Liu and so on, it is still difficult to choose a unique and good name.
3. It is difficult for family members to agree.
Naming children is a big deal, so many families will discuss it together, and different people may have different views on names. This will easily lead to differences, and ultimately it will be difficult to unify. Some couples even disagree about whether their children take the male surname or the female surname.
The existence of various factors makes choosing a name a big problem for many parents. In addition, many parents will pay attention to the meaning of the name, whether it sounds good or not. If you are too casual and careless, you may get a bad reputation.
1, distinguish between men and women
Men and women have different names. Girls' names tend to be elegant and virtuous, while boys' names should be bold and rough. Let everyone judge men and women directly by their names, and don't confuse the names of men and women, causing misunderstanding and embarrassment.
2. Try to avoid uncommon words.
Some parents will use uncommon words as their names in pursuit of meaning or uniqueness, but it will also bring a lot of trouble to their children. Some rare words don't even know the teacher, and you can't even pronounce the child's name.
Moreover, some rare words can't be entered on the computer, which will be particularly troublesome if you want to register your household registration book or any documents. Therefore, remembering a word that most people know can also avoid embarrassing others and getting yourself into trouble.
3. Homophonic words with ambiguity
When naming names, we should also pay attention to avoid ambiguous homophones, which will make people think of all kinds of strange places and be laughed at by others. Some homophones have bad meanings and are as terrible as curses for children.
Such ambiguous names as "Du Ziteng", "Pang Guangda" and "Fan Wan" make people laugh and hurt children's self-esteem. Therefore, when naming a name, many people should read it several times to avoid homophonic ambiguity.
4. Don't take the name too big.
We all want our children to be successful when they grow up, so parents will put their expectations of their children in their names. For example, having a child named "Li Qinghua" not only brings pressure to the child, but also makes the child encounter all kinds of embarrassment if he goes to an ordinary school when he grows up, and the child may also complain about it.
1, look it up in the dictionary
When naming their children, most parents will look up some words with better meanings from Xinhua Dictionary. The words in the dictionary are comprehensive and have detailed explanations, but it takes time and energy to find them, but it is also an interesting experience.
2. Collection of ancient poems
Words or phrases in ancient poetry will be more attractive. It is meaningful and poetic to give children names related to ancient poetry, and it is not so easy to change their names.
3. Ask relatives, friends or experts
Only by one or two people to name, thinking is relatively limited, friends and relatives can think together and brainstorm. If you really can't, you can also find an expert or team who specializes in naming others, which will save a lot of heart and make you more satisfied. But many parents still like to bring it to their children. After all, the child was born by himself.
Choosing a name is a science. If the name is not good, children may blame their parents when they grow up. Even if you are not satisfied, you can change your name again, but if you do a good job of your ID card, it will be particularly troublesome to modify it. So try to be careful when naming your child.