A name may have an indelible and significant impact on a person's life. It is precisely because of this that parents are always extra cautious when naming their children.
A recent photo of a kindergarten roll call went viral. It can be seen in the photo that some names are very "common". Even netizens joked that 70% of parents can find children with the same name, including "Han, Xuan", etc. There are too many popular names on the Internet.
In fact, this is also one of the problems that confuses parents. Duplicate names that are too high always bring a lot of confusion to children, and they always think hard when choosing names. However, some netizens also made suggestions, believing that there are routines for naming, as long as you pay more attention.
So, what problems should you avoid when choosing a name?
1. Avoid duplicate names
Parents must try to avoid the pitfall of too many duplicate names when choosing names. Everyone wants their children's names to be unique and nice, but now more than half of the ten children in a class can have the words "Han, Xuan, Yi" in their names, so there will naturally be more duplicate names. It would be better for parents not to name their children after Internet hot names.
2. Homophony
The name is used very frequently in a person’s life, so homophony is also a big problem.
Some parents are negligent and do not notice their children at a young age. As a result, it is discovered when they go to school that their names have bad homophones, such as "Wei Shengjin, Xia Ren" and so on. Although such names do not have the same meaning literally. question, but the homophonic pronunciation is very funny, and it is easy to be laughed at, making children have low self-esteem.
3. Don’t be too hard to pronounce
In the past few years, many parents liked to give their children four-letter names, thinking that such names are unique, the rate of duplication of names is very low, and they sound very unique. The trend.
However, it is easy for people to think that such a name is a compound surname. This is still a small problem, but it is a big problem if the four characters are very difficult to pronounce. When others call the child, they don’t know how to pronounce this name smoothly. , it becomes increasingly difficult for children to socialize.
4. Don’t give your child a name that is too big. Although parents’ expectations are good, naming a child that is too big will also cause the child to be ostracized and ridiculed. .
The above issues are all aspects that parents need to pay attention to when choosing names. Don't cause too much trouble to your children's growth because of your own negligence.
1. Name with reference to the genealogy
Many families may not be able to find the genealogy now, but if you can refer to the name, not only will it become very simple, but it will also be considered It's a legacy. When children understand the origin of their names, they will also find it very meaningful. This has a very important positive impact on children. Parents may wish to give it a try.
2. Refer to the parents’ surnames
If you can’t think of a good way, naming your child after the parents’ surnames is also a good choice. However, such a name may have a high rate of duplication. Parents may wish to add a character to it, or split the surname. For example, if the father's surname is Zhang, the mother's surname is Chen, and the child is named "Zhang Jichen", such a name is nice and meaningful.
3. Refer to idioms or ancient poems
Idioms and ancient poems are the most important cultural treasures of our country. It would be very good to choose two words with beautiful meanings from them to name your child. of. For example, the name of the writer Bing Xin comes from "a piece of ice heart in a jade pot".
Idioms are also a good way to name. You can embed your surname into an idiom, or choose two characters from an idiom to have a unique personality and cultural heritage.
In short, although it is not easy to name your child, it is not difficult to find a method.
It is best to adhere to the principle of being easy to hear and easy to remember. After all, names are mostly used for communication. Being easy to hear and easy to remember not only makes people feel comfortable, but will also bring great benefits to children's social interactions. Parents must keep this in mind.