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The father gave his daughter an elegant name. Everyone agreed, but ignored the surname, which eventually became a joke
I believe that most parents, in When it comes to naming your children, everyone has a headache. It’s not like people in the past who gave their children an unpleasant name so that they would be easier to support. Nowadays, parents want their children’s names to be unique, smart, and meaningful. Therefore, the difficulty has also been greatly increased.
There is such a father who worked hard to name his daughter. He came up with a very elegant name for his daughter, called "Chu Mo". After hearing this, his family members all said that it was a good name and that it was an elegant name. It also has a bookish feel and is very suitable for girls. But he ignored his surname. You must know that this baby's father's surname is Xiong.
When combined, the homophony becomes "Bear Bears", which sounds exactly the same as the name of the anime "Bear Bears". No matter whether it is a boy or a girl, neither boy nor girl would want such a name. There is such a name!
However, we can’t blame Bao’s dad too much. Adults rarely watch cartoons, so it’s understandable that they didn’t know about the cartoon “Bear Bears”. If there wasn't this anime, there would actually be nothing wrong with the name, right?
When the child went to school, he was often laughed at by his classmates just because of this name, which made his daughter very sad and gradually became low self-esteem. When his daughter came home and argued with her father, Father Bear thought that the name he chose was very good and everyone recognized it, and he also gave a lot of reasons. I also think that if my daughter’s name is similar to that of anime, it will be easier to leave a deep impression on others, so I don’t think there is anything wrong with it.
Dad Bear’s self-righteousness made his daughter cry alone in sadness. When his daughter’s grades deteriorated, she lost her smile, and she became low self-esteem, Father Bear truly realized the seriousness of the problem.
The impact of weird names on children is especially obvious after they go to school
No matter what name you give your child, you may not think there is any problem before the child goes to school, but when the child After going to school and being exposed to more knowledge, problems started to arise.
Some weird names will be given various unpleasant nicknames. The impact of this on children cannot be ignored. You must know that names will accompany children throughout their lives. Therefore, unpleasant nicknames It’s a nickname that I probably can’t get rid of no matter where I go.
If a child is often laughed at because of his name and his parents do not pay attention to it, then the child may become more and more timid, inferior, and cowardly. This is not only detrimental to the formation of the child's character, but also affects children's academic performance.
In addition, the child's name may also affect the child's interpersonal communication. If the child's name is too weird, it will cause the child's name to be regarded as a joke, or it may be too difficult to pronounce. It may also be because Others, in order to avoid embarrassment or not knowing what to call them, are reluctant to interact with their children. These are all detrimental to children.
It is best not to commit these taboos in naming children and pay attention to the homophony problem
Previously, when Father Bear named his daughter, he did not pay attention to the homophony problem, which caused a joke and made his daughter Being laughed at. Therefore, in order to avoid homophonic problems, after parents choose a name for their child, they still need to read it more and share it with relatives and friends for everyone's reference. If there are no major problems, it will be considered appropriate. Otherwise, if you think hard about what you think is a good name, it may eventually become a joke and make the child unable to hold his head up in front of others. I think this is something that no parent wants to see!
Avoid using complex text
Nowadays, there are more and more people, and the chance of having the same name is getting higher and higher. Therefore, some people think of using some complicated characters to name their children, such as traditional Chinese characters and characters with many strokes. But the problem of writing difficulties was ignored.
Although no matter how complicated the text is, it is not a problem for us adults, but for children, especially those who have just learned to write, it is a very painful thing. . When a child takes an exam, doing the questions is originally a headache for the child, but after he has a complicated name, writing the name may become as headache as doing the exam questions.
Pay attention to the meaning of the name
Some parents name their children too casually, or they think that the more tacky and common the name, the easier it is for the child to support. In fact, this saying It is rather superstitious and should be abandoned. Nowadays, the times are progressing, and everyone pays more and more attention to names. A good name will impress people and make them eye-catching.
If your name is too common or weird, you will feel inferior to others. Therefore, for the healthy growth of your child, you should not be too casual when naming your child. You need to think about it carefully, otherwise the children will complain about their parents in the future!
Let’s be honest
People often say that words are like people, but in fact, the same is true for names. Names are very important to children and will basically accompany them throughout their lives. So how can we make the names that accompany our children throughout their lives ordinary, or even bizarre? Giving your child a good name and avoiding the above misunderstandings is the true expression of loving your child, what do you think?
Today’s topic: What name did you give your child? Have you committed any of the above taboos?
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