A few netizens suggested that I change my name before, but I have always been reluctant to change it. There are certain reasons for my reluctance.
Because I am from Shaanxi, born in Shaanxi, and spent my childhood in Shaanxi. In the past ten years, Shaanxi has given me a stomach that loves noodles and a tough character. So the first character of my online name is "Qin".
Later, I moved to Shandong with my parents, and spent nearly ten years in Shandong. I spent my childhood in Shandong, and I have many beautiful memories that I will never forget. In addition, my ancestral home is Shandong, and my parents still speak Shandong dialect. It can be said that Shandong is my second hometown. So I chose the character "Lu" for the second character.
Henan is the place where I have lived the longest. I have spent my entire professional life here and still live here now. This is now and will be my home in the future. So I chose the character "Yu" for the third character.
Each of the three words sounds nice and has meaning, but when combined together, they become more awkward. After thinking about it, I think it was caused by those two celebrities.
Yesterday, another friend suggested that I change my name. I realized that I really need to change my name, not only for myself, but also to make it more pleasing to my friends who read my articles.
But what should I call it? I was in trouble again.
I am a person with a dull brain, and I am the worst at coming up with names. Whether it is an online name or a personal name, or whether it is elegant or vulgar, it is difficult for me to come up with a suitable one.
When my daughter registered for household registration, her husband said that girls don’t need to be named according to the fixed words on their family tree, and he asked me to give her a nice one. I thought about it for several days and came up with the single word "Na". As a result, my daughter is still complaining that her name doesn't sound good. If it weren't for the trouble of changing her name, she would have changed it long ago.
Sometimes when I read novels, I am always amazed at the authors' skill in choosing names. Each name is both beautiful and has profound meaning.
Looking at Cao Xueqin's "Dream of Red Mansions", the study of names alone is enough to become a school of red studies. The so-called "Yuan Ying Tan Xi" means "Yuan Ying sighs", and Zhen Shiyin means "the true story is hidden"; the eldest girls of the four girls are named respectively: Qin, chess, calligraphy, painting, etc.
When I go online, I often notice those distinctive names, and I always wonder, how come people are so good at naming names?
For example, our Uncle Jian only has two words, which is catchy and easy to remember. The pronunciation is the same as the name of the platform "", which implies the relationship between and; and the word "uncle" implies that he is in charge of the platform, showing a bit of respect and a bit of his humility. This name What a great time to get up.
I don’t have the ability to come up with such a good name, and my brain is too slow to even think of a bad name for a while.
Since I wanted to change my name yesterday, I thought about it all night. I couldn’t think of an elegant one because I wasn’t good enough; I couldn’t think of a suitable one for a vulgar one.
While cooking this morning, I was thinking about it, and I was thinking that I am a very introverted person and don’t like to join in crowds of people. When I was in college, everyone was trying to get a seat in the front row, even if I went there early. Sit in the back row.
I like to sit in the corner during meetings at work, unlike some people who sit opposite the boss.
I am like a piece of grass growing in the corner, I cannot attract anyone’s attention, and I don’t like to attract attention. I look for my happiness in the corner of my life.
Let’s call it “living in the corner”, that’s what makes it good.