How to wake up your children
Parents know that the colder the weather, the more difficult it becomes to wake up their children. Therefore, mothers need to To master the correct method, you can play some children's songs or let him smell the aroma of the breakfast you prepared to see how to wake your child up. Methods to wake up children 1
Methods to wake up children
Play some cheerful and relaxing children's songs
1. Remember to use relaxing soft music, it is too Rock concerts can scare children awake all of a sudden. Such a way of getting up will bring negative emotions to the children throughout the day. Playing soft music, such as the sound of running water and the chirping of birds, is a good choice, or a children's song that the child usually likes. Let him start a beautiful day with cheerful music.
Let him smell the aroma of the breakfast you prepared
2. Remember what your child likes to eat, or prepare a more fragrant breakfast and place it next to his bedside. They are all gluttonous and will wake up slowly when they smell the aroma of food, and they will be in a very happy mood.
Touch his face and hair
3. This allows the child to feel the love and care from his parents. Often when he wakes up, he can see his father or mother gently touching him by the bedside, which will let him subconsciously know his parents' love for him.
Reasons why children are slow to get up
1. Due to the development of the nervous system, some children are born with slower movements and can do things that others can do in 5 minutes. He takes 10 minutes, maybe more.
2. These children have strong ability to shift their attention, but they are also accompanied by inattention. They are easily attracted by irrelevant things. Dongdong picked up the toothbrush and was about to squeeze out the toothpaste when he found that his mother had given him a new toothbrush, so he stopped what he was doing and looked at his new friend carefully.
3. The child does have “reasons” for not wanting to go to kindergarten or school. For example:
In kindergarten, children are not willing to play with him;
The teacher always pays attention to and praises other children, but rarely praises him.
The method of waking up children in the morning must be gentle. Think about it from another perspective. We adults want to sleep more when we get up, let alone children? It's definitely the same. He refused to let go of any chance to sleep. Therefore, parents should know more about their children, gently wake them up, and start a beautiful day. Method 2 to wake up your child
The correct way to wake up your child when it’s cold
Make an agreement with your child in advance
The next day, talk to your child The child said yes, what time will he get up tomorrow. In this way, the child will know what he is doing and will not be at a loss when he is woken up the next day.
When you say yes to your children, you can use rewards. For example: make him something he likes to eat, and allow him to come back from school and watch cartoons for a while.
Wake up with music
Instead of nagging your child to wake up, it is better to play some music to your child and tell him when it is time to get up. Whether it is soothing or exciting music, you can freely choose according to your child's preferences.
Beautiful music can also help children have a good mood~
Wake up with the smell of breakfast
One day in advance and Communicate with the children about what they want to eat. When they get up in the morning, make breakfast and wake them up with the aroma. After making it, placing the fragrant breakfast next to the bed will automatically convey a signal to the child: "It's time to get up and have breakfast."
Isn’t this much smarter than passively waking your child up with noise and noise?
Wake your child gently
Rather than shouting or rudely waking your child, it is better to use a gentle approach.
Gently shake the child, touch his head, gently call his name, and tell him that it is time to get up.
Wait until your child gives you a certain response before walking away.
5 wrong ways to wake up your children
Please do not use these 5 ways to wake up your children.
1. Scold loudly
Most parents will scold their children loudly when they stay in bed. They have a bad temper and a harsh tone, which can easily take away the child's sleep security. , frightening the child, which may lead to the child being too timid in the long run.
2. Pull off the quilt with force
When the child is sleeping soundly, if the parent pulls off the quilt with force, not only will the child's sleep safety be seriously destroyed, but the temperature change will also occur. A sudden attack on the nervous system is detrimental to the child's nervous system development.
Not only quilts, but also the things that children often hold and hold during sleep are all environments that make children feel safe. It is best for parents not to use these things as a condition to threaten their children when they get up!
3. "Slap" forcefully
It is most undesirable to use rough "slapping" method to wake up the child. If a sleeping child's body is suddenly "attacked", he will be startled, which will affect the child's sense of security.
In addition, this rough method will also make children feel disgusted and even have a rebellious mentality, making them not want to get out of bed.
4. Repeated nagging
Some parents may wake their children up every 5 minutes. In fact, if parents always nag them repeatedly, the children will not know when it is time to get up. The child will feel that "I won't have time to get up anyway if you nag me a few more times." This is very detrimental to cultivating the habit of getting up early in the child.
5. Noise from daily life
Some parents will use daily noise after getting up to wake up their children, such as the sound of walking, the sound of washing face and brushing teeth, the sound of washbasin rubbing, the sound of talking, etc. , although this will not wake up the child in the dream, but it can easily make the child disgusted. Children who wake up to the noise of daily life often have "wake-up gas".