When choosing a name for their children, many parents will weigh it carefully and choose a name that is both nice and meaningful, but Mr. Fu is an exception.
Recently, Mr. Fu was invited to the school office by his son’s teacher. This was not because his son was naughty, but because of the child’s name. When the child was born, Mr. Fu The family took great pains to give their child a famous name, and finally gave the child a one-letter name, with the surname "Fu" and the first name "Qin". In the words of the family, "Qin" represents respect and respect. I felt that this word was more meaningful, so the whole family settled on it!
But after the child went to school, this name made the teacher very angry. During roll call, the teacher: Fu Qin (father), the child: Here! I always feel like I'm at a disadvantage and I'm being taken advantage of every day. Moreover, when talking to parents about their children, the teacher talks about it one by one. Those who know are talking about your child, but those who don’t know think that the teacher is talking about the parent’s father to the child’s parents. It always feels very awkward!
After returning from school, Mr. Fu decided to change his child’s name in order not to embarrass the teacher and to make his child happy on campus. Eventually the name was changed to "Fu Guosheng".
It seems that you cannot choose random names for your children. So, what should we pay attention to when choosing names?
1. Pay attention to homophonic words
Just like Mr. Fu named his son in the article, although the word Qin sounds good, it is not a homophonic combination with his own surname. , some parents give their children names, such as: Du Ziteng, Shi Zhenxiang, Fu Yanjie, Yang Wei, etc. If they are not combined according to the surname, these names are very meaningful, but combined with the surname, these homophonics are very strange, and it is inevitable Make people think the bad side.
2. Pay attention to rare words
Nowadays, many parents often use rare words to name their children in order to show that they have connotation. However, many cultures of rare words A limited number of people don't know him at all, and it's easy to pronounce it wrong, for example: Zhang Yi (yì). People who don't know Yi are likely to pronounce it as (yan). At this time, the children will feel more embarrassed because their name makes them confused. It's really not worth the gain if a child develops an inferiority complex.
3. Pay attention to the strokes of words
For children, the simpler the name and the fewer strokes, the easier it is for them to learn to write their own names early. , however, characters with more strokes will make children unable to write their own names. Not long ago, a primary school student wasted a lot of time writing his name in the exam because his name added up to more than 100 strokes. Therefore, parents should also think carefully when naming their children.