Nalan Xingde has a song "Mulan Ci", in which there is a sentence: If life is just like the first time we met.
How wonderful it would be if life were like the first time we met.
Kawabata Yasunari wrote a story about an encounter in the novel "The Dancing Girl of Izu";
A melancholy boy I went for a walk in the mountains and accidentally met the wandering dancer Xunzi. I was attracted to her and fell in love with her. There is a kind of sad beauty in her.
Although the end of the story is a farewell to never seeing each other again, the boy's subsequent life is filled with a pure embellishment and sweet comfort.
All encounters in this world are the will of God.
Everything in the world is a result of encounter
Dong Qing once said something in "The Long Reader" that is still fresh in my memory. : "Everything in the world comes from encounters. When cold meets warm, there is rain; when winter meets spring, there are years; when heaven meets earth, there is eternity; when people meet people, there is life."
In the vast sea of ????people, meeting someone, from acquaintance, to knowing each other, and then to falling in love.
Just like a punctual subway, neither early nor late, just the right time, the right platform, and the right you.
Many times we lament the cruelty and ruthlessness of the years, but we don’t know that everything is the best arrangement and there is God’s will in it, although we may miss some people and people. things, but we will also encounter other people and things. You have to believe that everything happens for its own reason and is the best arrangement for you. In the depths of time, we will encounter the people and things we most want to meet.
Because I believe that everything in the world is an encounter, I am grateful, I cherish the love of fate, and I cherish the ordinary happiness in life.
In this life, live up to others and live up to your encounters.
In life, there are too many people who fall apart as time passes, and there are too many relationships which fade away as time passes.
In this vast world of people, being able to meet each other is a rare fate in itself. Since it's fate, don't live up to it. Since others have chosen to believe in you, never let down their expectations of you.
Shakespeare wrote in "As You Like It": "Love all, trust a few, betray no one."
In this life, if you know each other or meet each other, don’t let down the deep love.
The story of the famous Internet writer Tang Jiasanshao and his wife has made countless people sigh and move.
The year he and Muzi met, he was 18 and she was 16. She joked that she had to write 100 love letters worth 10,000 words to her before she agreed to be his girlfriend. So he wrote seriously, and when he wrote the 137th letter, she became his bride.
He said to Muzi: "If you marry me, I will never let you suffer. From now on, I will carry the rice and eat the leftovers. The electrical appliances at home are broken." I can cultivate, so you don’t have to worry about anything."
For the next 20 years, they cherished each other and passed through teenagers, young adults, and middle-aged people. However, the sadness came unexpectedly!
Muzi was diagnosed with breast cancer. After one year of treatment, the condition improved; after the second review, the condition recurred. The doctor told him that he only had one and a half years left to live.
He started to be vegetarian, started to release animals, "performed one good deed a day", and prayed for Muzi; there were folk remedies in Tokyo, so he ran there, and there was a famous doctor in the United States, and he ran there...
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He once had an autobiographical novel titled "For You, I Will Give Up the Whole World." One-third of the way through writing, Muzi became seriously ill, so he changed the title to : "For you, I am willing to love the whole world."
Because of you, I am willing to fall in love with this world, every plant and tree here, all the imperfections and beauty here.
In this world, if someone treats you deeply: willing to carry rice and eat leftovers for you; willing to accompany you through thick and thin, and grow old; willing to use His way makes you feel free to be a child; he is willing to fall in love with the whole world for you.
You must be sincere and cherish it. Use your sincerity to live up to his affection.
I hope that for the rest of my life, I will live up to myself and my youth.
I really like the words of Milan Kundera in "The Testament Betrayed": "Life is an eternal and heavy effort, striving to keep oneself within oneself." In Lu Yao's "Ordinary World", Sun Shaoping is very motivated.
But the villagers told him to get a wife, have a baby, build a house and live a good life, don’t mess around.
He shook his head. He didn't want to stay in the village all his life. He wanted to go out and have a look outside. The world is so big, I want to see it, maybe the earliest origin should be here.
He left the village and went to the city. While working in the coal mine, he kept reading and discovered the vast world from books.
Even though Shaoping has been walking on a road full of thorns, he never bows to fate. He deeply understands that all humiliation, torture, and suffering are not just tests for him, but a ladder to success.
In this world, what kind of person you can become depends on how many books you have read, how many roads you have walked, how many people you have met, and what you like for yourself. How long have you persisted in the things you love and how much effort have you put into them?
Just like Wang Guozhen once said in "Love Life": "I don't think about whether I can succeed. Since I have chosen a distant place, I just care about the hardships. I don't think about whether I can succeed. Whether I can win love or not, since I am in love with roses, I will bravely express my sincerity. I will not think about whether there will be cold wind and rain behind me. Since the goal is the horizon, I will only leave the world with my back. Flat or muddy, as long as you love life, everything is expected. ”
As long as the road is chosen by you, don’t be afraid of how difficult and far it may be. As long as you walk on the road, there is no place you can't reach.
We only live once, and we move forward not to become others, but to become a better version of ourselves.
May you live up to the world and yourself for the rest of your life.
There is another sentence at the end of Nalan Xingde's "Mulan Ci": "If life is just like the first meeting, why is the autumn wind sad like a painted fan."
If life were as beautiful as the first time we met, there would be no pain in the future of parting and missing each other.
But life is only a few decades, clouds gather and disperse, fate comes and goes, it is all God’s will.
The rest of your life is short, use your sincerity to cherish every encounter, and use your patience to be kind to every acquaintance. I will live up to everyone I meet, and I will live up to myself who moves forward and perseveres hard.
Every encounter is destined; every encounter has its own unique meaning, so cherish every acquaintance in life, cherish every moment in life Encounter, all encounters, are the most beautiful arrangements in the world.