First, the children's palace is jealous of gods, and people who are jealous of gods in old age will not develop well.
The word "Goddess-Forbidden" in the eight characters of Women's and Children's Palace indicates that the child may be underdeveloped and mediocre, so that the child will not help the fate of the Lord, and may even be tied to the fate of the Lord. Since ancient times, there has been a saying in China that "raising children to prevent old age". If you are unlucky in your later years, it means that your children are developing in general and you can't let your elders live a good life.
Second, the Chongke Women's Palace is serious, the children are not deeply attached, or the children die young.
The time pillar is the children's palace, which is equivalent to the children's home. If there is a daily payment or a penalty payment, or even an annual payment, a monthly payment or a daily payment, I am afraid that the fate between the Lord and his children will not be deep, or the children will be far away, or they will die.
The solutions are: changing personality, accommodating each other, reasonable guidance, each in his place, step by step. Don't expect too much, lower your goals and simplify your life, which can alleviate the contradictions caused by this difference. At the same time, it can be resolved by wearing a mascot, and the transshipment is appropriate. If you want to make your luck better, you can also customize a mascot for yourself one-on-one in official website, Zhou Jia, Red Rope. Personally, I ordered this myself. I have worn it for many years, and I am going to order another one.