When a new life is about to be born in a family, the first question that comes to mind may be to give the child a good name, but sometimes the name is "too big" or "too exaggerated" , easy to make jokes. The "good" name given to the child six years ago has "resulted" now. Bao's father wants to change the name
A friend Xiaoguang is the only child in the family. His wife was pregnant a few years ago. When Xiaoguang's family gave birth to their first child, they were so happy that they named the child in advance.
Xiaoguang asked everywhere if the name for the child was good. When he heard the name of the child, he knew that his friends and family had good expectations for the child who was about to be born, but he had to say that the name was indeed a bit "too big" Yes, it sounds like the embarrassing feeling given by names like "Long Aotian" and "Zhao Ritian".
As a friend of Xiaoguang, I tactfully reminded Xiaoguang about the child’s name and suggested that Xiaoguang not make the name too “too big”, but Xiaoguang didn’t think so. In the end, he Really used.
Now Xiaoguang’s son is six years old and has just entered elementary school. Just like in kindergarten, the teacher will always take a second look when he calls Xiaoguang’s son’s name, and sometimes other parents will also look at it. A few jokes made intentionally or unintentionally.
Even Xiaoguang’s son’s classmates would often laugh at him. Xiaoguang’s son would always come home crying because of his name, which annoyed Xiaoguang so much that he even started to give his son a name. The idea of ??changing the name, the so-called "good" name given to the child six years ago, has now "come to fruition".
In fact, when naming your child, you need to pay some attention to avoid embarrassment in the future.
Why shouldn’t you name your child “too big”? It's not superstitious, it's scientific.
1. "It is easy to make a living with a bad name", this is the prayer of the elders to the younger generations
We may have all heard from our elders more or less that "it is easy to make a living with a bad name" This is what people did in the past.
Some elders also say that children’s names should not be too big, but this is not the case. Most of them are due to the poor and difficult living conditions in the past. Children are often prone to accidents, so parents hope to choose a name that is too big. "Bad names" help children experience less hardship.
Of course, there is no need to worry about this problem now, but for the elderly at home, the "unattractive" name is actually the elderly's wish for the safety of their children, with a good blessing.
2. A child’s name that is “too big” can easily cause the child to be laughed at unnecessarily
Parents do not want their children to have a bright future, so sometimes parents treat their children The wishes are often reflected in the name.
Although parents have good intentions, names that are too exaggerated and "too big" can sometimes lead to avoidable ridicule for their children.
There is a family with the surname "Sheng". The parents hope that their child will look good, so they name the child "Sheng Pan'an". In this way, anyone who hears this name may be involuntary. Comparing the child's appearance with the "Pan An" in one's mind will inevitably lead to some ridicule.
3. "Humility" has always been the mainstream in our traditional culture
In our traditional culture, modesty has always been considered our virtue. If a person always praises himself Being as good as you are is bound to arouse the resentment of those around you, which may be unavoidable.
If a person's name is "too big", it is actually not much different from boasting.
It is said that "the first bird is shot". When a child is given a name that is "too big" or too "unique" by his parents, he may often be teased casually by his relatives and friends as a joke when he is a child. A few words.
But when they grow up, this "too big" and immodest name may become an obstacle to their interpersonal communication.
Everyone’s name may accompany them for a lifetime. Parents should be cautious when choosing names. “Too big” names may sometimes bring some embarrassment to their children. and unnecessary worries.