As we all know, the influence of names on people is reflected in various aspects, such as health, marriage, wealth, personality, psychology, social relationships, etc. It is often seen that those with auspicious names will have a happy life, success, and peace of mind and body; those with unlucky names will often be in adversity, with many setbacks, more work and less gain, or encounters with villains that make things worse, or many difficulties, and a bumpy marriage. So how do you give your child a good name?
Avoid negativity when naming your child
Objectively speaking, negative words in the name may have a negative impact on people’s minds. Unexpected erosion and harm will also affect others and society, so naming and gender differences should be avoided.
The purpose of naming is to facilitate people’s communication, production and life, but in life there are many people with names that are neither fish nor fowl, neither male nor female. Regardless of the original intention, this kind of gender-neutral naming method will objectively have a negative impact on interpersonal relationships. The natural attributes of both sexes in terms of temperament and character make women mostly named with words that reflect gentleness, beauty, and virtuousness, while men are mostly named with words that reflect vigor, broad-minded, strong, and majestic. But this does not mean denying the strong side of women and the fragile side of men. This is a generalized overall impression.
The name should be personal, but it should be moderate, and it should not be completely alienated, neither male nor female. Otherwise, this is unrealistic, harmful and unhelpful, and should be suppressed and transformed.
The name must be measured
Of course, the name must reflect truth while reflecting goodness and beauty, that is, neither plague nor fire, be worthy of the name, not outrageous, and not excessive. Everything has a degree that is either too high or too low. Of course, the same is true for naming. Otherwise, why would it be so difficult to name? Naming is mostly about expressing ambitions, wishes, character, etc., but there are many aspects of naming in life. A bit excessive or outrageous. There are usually two situations: one is bragging and over exaggeration. For example, Li Weili, Guan Wanguo, He Neng, Wanlihu, Yue Shanhe, etc. The second one is excessive self-effacement, and even belittles and belittles oneself. Such as Wang Zhuo, Zhang Yu, Jiao Yu, etc.
Avoid following celebrities
When naming people, they follow great people and sages in the hope of taking them as role models. However, this kind of admiration does not necessarily have a direct cause-and-effect relationship with objective effects. Following the name of a celebrity is a mechanical imitation in itself. It is uncreative and does not conform to the spirit of independence. It covers up one's own original personality. Young people must have confidence and neither feel inferior nor arrogant. Admiring celebrities does not necessarily mean imitating them. Famous names.
Therefore, we should try our best to overcome the mentality of blind obedience and advocate a new thinking in naming that is rational and can show personal characteristics, connotation of the times and aesthetic taste.
Avoid shallow naming
The meaning of the name is superficial, lacking in self-cultivation and artistic conception. When first seeing the name, it gives people a general feeling of no change. Even feel boring. Such names include Wang Yi, Mancang, Laixi, Yu Dayou, Zhang Ansheng, Fugui, etc. This kind of name is like unprocessed stone. Although it is also a person's name, it cannot be said to be art, so it is difficult to give people a sense of beauty. A name with a single content and superficial meaning will naturally not be eye-catching and win people's favor. Only by being rich in variety and depth can the name not be as boring as a glass of boiled water.
Avoid names with outdated meanings
Naming according to old rules, using common sayings, reflecting backward values ????and aesthetic consciousness, are all manifestations of vulgarity. In real life, many people’s names are still centered around blessings, longevity and health, honoring ancestors, and the three cardinal principles and five constant principles. They hold books such as the Book of Changes, Bagua, and Xianfa, talk about the five elements, divine bad luck, and discuss the eight characters, such as horses, golden treasures, and constants. Old-fashioned names such as De, Chen Shuzhen, Li Laifu, Zhang Zongli, Zhao Shouxian and so on began to accompany them. Some people also recalled the common sayings and took advantage of them, such as naming Tang poetry, Song poetry, etc. This is also vulgar.
Giving a vulgar name is like wearing dirty clothes on a delicate and beautiful person. It will be a lifelong regret.
Therefore, you should choose an elegant and cultivated name. In this way, even if a person is not very elegant, he will be more elegant in the eyes of people who don't know him well. An elegant and profound name is as beautiful as poetry, picturesque, and mellow as wine. It is not only evocative and unforgettable, but also like the warm breath that permeates the flowers under the morning sun. It is refreshing and will consciously or unconsciously cultivate the mind of the owner of the name and improve it. His behavior plays a subtle role.