1. When there are problems at home, the elderly should feel ashamed: I am the elderly who did not do well, was immoral, and failed to educate my family well.
2. As a daughter-in-law, you should understand: parents-in-law are a real blessing to the family. Not caring about the elderly, resenting the elderly, and refusing to be filial to the elderly means that you do not want blessings and will have no blessings.
3. The utensils are pure and clean, and earthenware pots and pots are better than gold and jade.
4. Correspond internally and externally, and match words and deeds.
5. Women are the mother of the country, the wife of the family, and the wife of people.
6. The entire family is built on love. A family cannot be established without love. Love is the first condition for starting a family.
7. The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family are all from other surnames. When they come to the same home, they are like mother and daughter.
8. Respect the elders at the top, love the young at the bottom, and be harmonious with neighbors and relatives.
9. To be self-reliant, a man must be stubborn.
10. I am only concentrating on my studies now, so don’t waste your youth lightly.
11. Live in a simple way; teach your children in a righteous way.
12. Exclusively enjoying a great name is the way to reduce your fortune.
13. Equality between men and women means equal rights and equal enjoyment. There is absolutely no equality in duties and etiquette.
14. Having civilized etiquette is a prerequisite for success in life and work.
15. Those who have compassion must be ashamed and disgusted.
16. If a family is at odds with itself, that family cannot stand.
17. You can’t get close enough to your parents, and you can’t get close enough to your husband and wife.
18. If you can be true to yourself, you can be true to others, just like night follows day, and shadow follows body shape.
19. When you are in a wealthy place, you should show pity to the poor and humble.
20. When naming the descendants of the Fang family, the descendants of the family should be named with one character in the middle and one character in the back. There should be no confusion.
21. Elders must be guides and negotiators, but they should not be commanders.
22. Promote the merits of the elderly and ancestors to their children, set an example of filial piety by respecting the elderly, and enlighten future generations by being grateful for the kindness of their ancestors.
23. Be honest, honest and kind.
24. If a scholar has shrewd women, good friends will not come; if the state has jealous ministers, no wise men will remain.
25. Peace is the main word in running a family.
26. It is difficult to put out a nearby fire in a distant mountain, and a distant relative is not as good as a close neighbor.
27. National prestige should not be damaged internally, and family scandal should not be publicized externally.
28. To show respect with dignity is fake. To love in hiding is to be private.
29. Reading more and understanding the past and present can help you avoid worries.
30. Being full of merit and gentleness is called sex as gray.
31. Honesty is the most touching thing.
32. If the children of rich and noble people fail to succeed, they will be tolerated; if the children of poor and humble people are easy to succeed, they will be accustomed to strict restraint.
33. Those who show off their intelligence will have poor morals, and those who are too eloquent will have poor fortunes.
34. It is the best Feng Shui and the highest Feng Shui for the elderly to be virtuous.
35. Only with virtue can you be blessed, and only with love can you have a family.
36. It is most shameful to be flattered by wealth and honor.
37. Don’t create right and wrong, don’t say right and wrong, don’t preach right and wrong, don’t listen to right and wrong, take responsibility for right and wrong, and don’t be afraid of right and wrong. Harmonize the family and avoid any disputes, otherwise the old man will be missing.
38. It is easy to go from frugality to luxury, but it is difficult to go from luxury to frugality.
39. Mother-in-law has been a daughter-in-law for many years. When she marries a daughter-in-law, she becomes a mother-in-law. The daughter-in-law is a girl at home, and as soon as she leaves the palace and goes to her mother-in-law's house, she becomes a daughter-in-law.
40. Fame, official title, wealth, sound and sex are all called desires, and they can all lead to death.
41. Great softness is not soft, extreme hardness is not rigid.
42. Fraternity is unconditional: it does not care about the person and does not bind the other person. Give the other person freedom.
43. Don’t use small evils to abandon people’s great beauty, and don’t use small grudges to forget people’s great kindness.
44. Think calmly. Don’t forget to give favors, don’t forget to receive favors.
45. A person cannot stand in this world without loyalty.
46. If you want to support your career in the world, you must first establish your feet.
47. We all have double parents in life, and both parents are treated equally.
48. If young people don’t work hard, old people will be sad.
49. There is little evil in intimacy, and you will suffer from it for a long time.
50. There should be room for success in everything, and it is not advisable to continue to be proud.
51. The spirit of diligence, thrift, and hard work should be carried forward at all times.
52. It can be said that a person is wise if he does not have any delusional thoughts when he is sleepless.
53. If you ignore a thought, you will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing.
54. Those with great wisdom and hard work are crazy, while those with little strength and heavy responsibilities are hesitant.
55. The husband should not think that his wife is ugly, and the wife should not think that her husband is poor.
56. The food should be simple but refined, and the vegetables in the garden will heal the delicacies.
57. A father loves his son and teaches him righteousness.
58. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don’t work for them.
59. The first is to get up late; the second is to be lazy; the third is to be luxurious; the fourth is to be proud. The first is to read diligently; the second is to respect teachers; the third is to love others; the fourth is to eat carefully.
60. The old man is like the earth, silently carrying everything, tolerating everything, and cultivating everything. If an old man has a broad mind, his family will be blessed with great blessings.
Family Instructions and Standards
1. Don’t interfere in your children’s affairs, let the younger generation take charge of the family, and don’t show seniority.
2. Living in a family that has lost harmony is equivalent to living in hell.
3. Dead trees are still growing when spring comes, and no one can become young again twice.
4. If you are content, you will be happy; if you are greedy, you will be worried.
5. Honesty is the lifeblood of life and the foundation of all values.
6. Promote diligence and thrift in housekeeping, saving is glorious and waste is shameful.
7. Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans.
8. Those who accumulate extensively will cause harm to their descendants; those who are too sensual will ruin their lives.
9. If the family is not harmonious, it will prevent neighbors from bullying; if the neighbors are not harmonious, it will prevent external bullying.
10. Use both kindness and righteousness, get along well with each other, support each other, and stay together for life.
11. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings, so don’t worry about them.
12. Loose talk is contrary to the truth, and miscellaneous knowledge is confusing.
13. Filial piety should be done to the best of one's ability, loyalty and courage should be shown sincerity; brothers help each other, and compassion has no boundaries.
14. If you want to have a high family status, you must do good deeds, and if you want to have good children and grandchildren, you must study.
15. Benefits can be overwhelming but not independent; planning can be done by few but not by many. If you stand alone, you will lose; if you work together, you will be defeated.
16. Only with the Tao can one have virtue; without Tao, there can be no virtue; only with virtue can there be happiness; without virtue, there can be no happiness.
17. When you have porridge or rice, you should think about the difficulty of getting there; half a thread, half a thread, always think about the difficulty of material resources.
18. If the motherland is in trouble, you should be the vanguard.
19. Failure to teach is the fault of the father; failure to teach strictly is the fault of the teacher.
20. If a person breaks his promise, his reputation will be ruined.
21. A brother must love his brother, and a brother must respect his brother. Don't use the slightest sharpness to hurt this flesh and blood relationship.
22. Those who are good at observing others should observe themselves, and those who are good at observing themselves should observe their hearts.
23. How can the elderly make the family prosperous? That is to do more good deeds and accumulate negative virtues. On the one hand, you can cultivate virtue and avoid sins; on the other hand, you can cultivate virtue for your descendants and take root in them.
24. A year’s plan begins in spring, and a day’s plan begins in the morning.
25. When you are young and strong, you must remember the bitterness of aging.
26. Cultivate oneself and bring order to the family; bring order to the family and then rule the country; rule the country and then bring peace to the world.
27. Time flies like an arrow, and the sun and the moon fly like a shuttle.
28. It is easy to live a peaceful life, but it is difficult to live a disobedient life.
29. Filial piety comes first, brothers are harmonious, children should be careful not to be arrogant and lazy, and husbands and wives should not be jealous.
30. Diligence and thrift are the foundation of running a family, being harmonious and harmonious is the foundation of keeping the family together, being cautious is the foundation of protecting the family, poetry and writing are the foundation of starting a business, and loyalty and filial piety are the foundation of passing down the family.
31. All the mediocre people in the world, ancient and modern, are defeated by the word "lazy"; the talented people in the world, ancient and modern, are all defeated by the word "arrogant".
32. The Yuan family of the Han Dynasty has been loyal and loyal for many generations.
33. How can there be dignity without honesty?
34. Be sincere without regrets, forgive without resentment, be harmonious without enmity, and endure without humiliation.
35. Students must be diligent in three aspects: diligent in hands, diligent in thinking, and diligent in reading.
36. Black-haired people don’t know how to study early, and white-haired people regret studying late.
37. It is difficult to make a family fortune if you are resigned to being decadent.
38. Don’t talk empty talk and don’t be short-sighted and have no long-term vision.
39. A gentleman should be willing to let his ambitions be humble, but not a villain who should be humble.
40. Loyalty, filial piety, benevolence and love show character, and diligence and thrift in farming and study show family tradition.
41. Independent personality, diligent and frugal, patient in everything, continuous learning, honest, and doing things with heart.
42. If young people don’t work hard, old people will be sad.
43. Be loyal in words and respectful in deeds.
44. The family and life are prosperous, and the people and career are prosperous.
45. If people can abandon hypocrisy, they will gain great peace of mind.
46. Women are lazy and blaming. They are the spoils of the family. Neither strong women nor weak women are wives.
47. The lucky star of a family is rooted in ambition. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as one's own responsibility and benefiting the whole family.
48. Parents are the blessings of a family, with ambition as the root. That is, taking the happiness of the whole family as one's own responsibility and benefiting the whole family.
49. You must be on guard against others, and you must not have the intention of harming others.
50. Keep things in order and obey the destiny. If you behave like this, you will be close to common people.
51. If you finish the national lessons early, you will have nothing left and you will be happy.
52. Diligence and thrift are the foundation of running a family, being harmonious and harmonious is the foundation of keeping the family together, being cautious is the foundation of protecting the family, poetry and writing are the foundation of starting a business, and loyalty and filial piety are the foundation of passing down the family.
53. It is better to have too much reality than too little reality.
54. Those who do not have strong ambitions will not be wise, and those who do not believe in their words will not achieve results.
55. Those who like to decorate will gradually make mistakes. Those who listen to one another are the beginning of disputes.
56. A weak man is also called a coward because he cannot support his family. Being submissive, saying things but not doing them, not daring to take responsibility, pushing women to the front, and only listening to women's orders.
57. A woman should be gentle, have a peaceful smile, and be popular with the family.
58. People’s temperament is difficult to change due to their innate nature, but reading can change their temperament.
59. Just one small opinion can make everything impossible and lead to failure.
60. Success begins at a young age, and excellence at a young age depends on correct family training.
Family tradition, family rules, family mottos
1. Family tradition is the tradition, norms and customs of the family. The old refers to the moral principles and ways of life passed down from generation to generation within a family or clan. Family tradition is the words and deeds of the upper generation to the next generation, and it is the influence of one's own actions on the next generation.
Be diligent, filial, friendly, tolerant, willing, and law-abiding.
The first is to get up late; the second is to be lazy; the third is to be luxurious; the fourth is to be proud. In addition to observing the four precepts, we must also follow four appropriate rules: first, we should read diligently; second, we should respect our teachers; third, we should love others; fourth, we should eat prudently.
Be diligent and thrifty in running the household and live in harmony.
Filial piety, respect, kindness, diligence and frugality.
Reading ancient books is based on exegesis; composing poetry is based on tone; raising relatives is based on pleasing people; maintaining health is based on being less angry; establishing oneself is based on not telling lies; running a family is based on not being embarrassed. The principle of being an official is not to need money; the principle of marching is not to disturb the people.
2. Family rules are the behavioral norms imposed by ancestors on family members. Generally, it is the education and standard for future generations inherited from a family, also called family law.
1. You must complete what you can do independently. Today's work must be completed today. Don't be careless, don't rely on your parents, and don't delay unreasonably.
2. Eat well and eat well to ensure comprehensive nutrition. Do not be picky or anorexic.
3. Keep reading for 2 hours every day.
We must insist on previewing carefully before class, listening carefully in class, taking detailed notes, reviewing carefully after class, and completing the study tasks of each subject
It is useless to be unfilial to parents, to worship God; it is useless to make friends if brothers are not in harmony; with bad intentions, Feng Shui It's useless to behave badly, it's useless to study; to be arrogant, it's useless to be knowledgeable; to be arrogant, it's useless to be clever; when the time is bad, it's useless to save people; to take people's money without thinking, it's useless to give away; to waste one's energy, it's useless to take medicine; to be wanton and evil, it's useless to be evil. .
4. Strengthen physical exercise and enhance physical fitness. The amount of exercise should not be less than one hour a day (the amount of exercise can be increased appropriately during winter and summer vacations). Do not be lazy, do not be casual, and do not just do the exercises you like.
5. Family dining should abide by family rules, eat as you eat, sit as you should, treat guests politely, do not ignore parents, elders and guests, do not play while eating, and do not waste food.
6. Share your parents' worries as much as possible. Don't ignore your parents' feelings. You should actively do what you can for your parents. Don't refuse or make conditions.
7. Be filial to your parents, know how to be grateful, cherish a happy life, obey your parents' teachings, greet your parents when you go out and enter the house, don't be ungrateful, and don't contradict, quibble or make trouble with your parents unreasonably.
8. We must learn to be grateful, be grateful to our parents who have given selflessly and silently, be grateful to all those who have cared, loved, supported, and helped, and cherish all true, beautiful, and kind things in society and nature. , hate hypocrisy and ugly bad phenomena, and cannot distinguish between right and wrong, good and evil.
9. You must respect your teachers. When you see teachers, elders, and acquaintances, you must take the initiative to greet them warmly, and do not turn a blind eye or avoid them.
10. You must unite your classmates, be loving and compassionate, do not bully the small, discriminate against the weak, or laugh at the disabled or students with poor grades.
11. Be sincere, humble, down-to-earth, do not cheat, be arrogant or complacent.
12. In public places such as movie theaters, shopping malls, conference venues, banquets, etc., you must behave politely and speak appropriately. Do not make loud noises or play around.
13. Aim high, persevere, move forward courageously, and strive for self-improvement. Don’t be ambitious, slack off, or give up easily.
14. You must complete the homework assigned by the teacher and the learning tasks assigned by your parents on time, quality and quantity. Do not be careless or have illegible handwriting. Do not do less or make excuses not to do it or delay. Do not finish the homework until it is done. You can play, but you are generally not allowed to watch TV (except for the 7pm news broadcast) or play on the computer except on weekends and holidays.
All contents stipulated in this standard must be fulfilled to the letter. If there is any violation, depending on the seriousness of the case, reminders, criticisms, warnings, reflection on mistakes, written reviews, copying of texts, and Housework, restriction of some family freedoms and rights, appropriate corporal punishment, etc.
3. Family motto refers to the instruction for children and grandchildren to conduct themselves in society and manage their family and business.
The first is to get up late, the second is to be lazy, the third is to be luxurious, and the fourth is to be proud. In addition to observing the Four Precepts, we must also follow four appropriate rules: first, we should read diligently, second, we should respect our teachers, third, we should love others, and fourth, we should eat prudently.
Behavior
1. Doing good will bring you a hundred blessings, and doing bad will bring you a hundred disasters. Don't do good deeds because they are small, and don't do evil deeds because they are small. These four words should be remembered throughout your life.
2. Be gentle in your behavior, don’t be hasty or slow; be honest in your words, don’t be deceitful or hasty.
3. When you see the good in others, praise them, and when you see the evil in others, hide them. The same is true for him.
4. Relatives, both internal and external, regardless of seniority or rank, should be greeted with courtesy. Don't let Jian Ao laugh and be disrespectful.
Make friends and manage your family
5. Make friends, so you can support your virtues. Those who need to be close to others, straightforward and knowledgeable, and those who are remote and docile.
6. After running the family, I read three to five hundred words of classics, history and biographies every day to cultivate my virtue and gain my knowledge. Don't play games, it's a waste of time.
7. Writers, as long as they have enough to pay for food, clothing, sacrifices, and guests. Do not seek more than you can, and you will be ridiculed by the world.
8. If you are a neighbor or relative who has always been kind, and if there is someone who needs help due to marriage or illness, we will help them according to our ability. Don't admire the reputation of a heroic hero. If you are careless and wanton, you will worry about your parents. You should keep a respectful distance from such scoundrels. If you associate with them, you will be in great trouble.
9. Human life and death depend on the beginning of life. The worldly people are ignorant and often lose their fortunes listening to witches' blessings, which is very pitiable. God is smart and upright, why would he invite people to offer sacrifices for the sake of good or bad fortune? Be warned!
10. Farmers and government servants must be honest and trustworthy. If there is any fee, it will be collected from each household. Don't benefit yourself at the expense of others, and be aggressive in many subjects. The household's money and food, especially the fleas, are fully accepted.
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