Since the mother pushed the person out of the womb, the name has become an inseparable and important component of life. It not only represents the symbol of the person, the difference between people, the indispensable factor and entity of the human being, but also represents the human being. Destiny, character, health, and the complex relationships of human existence.
The ancient sage once said: Form determines the name, name determines the matter, and matter tests the name. That is to say, to identify something, you must first have its name and then you can decide the matter; however, the development, success or failure of the thing can also verify the name. Everything is inherently complementary to each other. Therefore, names and things are also inseparable. Confucius said: If there is a name, there are words, and there are facts (facts). It means: Only when something has a name can it be communicated through human language. If there is nothing in it, then it does not exist in the first place. Therefore, a symbol represents a certain thing, and when something exists, a symbol or name will be generated to represent it; conversely, a symbol name must also represent the content and characteristics of the thing. The "so-called" name actually fulfills its meaning. It is easy to see that a person's name is the life that represents his existence. Throughout the ages, people have long recognized that a person's name is closely related to his or her life destiny.
There is an example in the Japanese ballad "Gazhan" (Que): "Life is like floating duckweeds on the water, drifting everywhere with the wind, and the soul is like a trapped bird in a cage, waiting to spread its wings, no longer Surrounded by hugs." Treating the destiny of life as a piece of water reveals that human beings are running around and working hard for survival. Therefore, almost everyone in Japan has a book on nameology, and the trend of changing names has become popular. It can be seen that people's names and numerology are a specialized knowledge.
Teacher Song Paimin said: "Names are composed of words. From the meaning of words, it seems that a person's surname and first name have no connection with destiny. They are almost arbitrary and there are huge accidental factors. However, from the name Analyzing the mathematics of strokes, and calculating names and destiny according to certain rules, we can know the relationship between yin and yang and the five elements, which can determine life."
Zhouyi naming experts introduced the method of choosing a good name: a person's name, or the name of a product, or the naming of a thing, the name should include "xiang", "number", " "Principle", for example: a product named "Shujie" gives people a sense of comfort and cleanliness. Counting its calligraphy and painting: there are 12 pictures of the word "Shu" and 17 pictures of the word "Jie". Together, It is a drawing of 29. The sum of the single digit and the current digit is 11. Then use 11 to match the hexagram, and the hexagram is the "Kan" hexagram. It is located among the four main hexagrams in the north. The kanji is water, the beginning of vitality. , has the strongest initial power and can occupy a seat in the market. This is also the reason why "Kleenex" toilet paper became an instant hit when it was first launched. Therefore, the failure and success of everything have their reasons. If you know how to analyze it from the perspective of Yili, you will suddenly understand.
A successful person must be able to use yin and yang and the five elements. One yin and one yang in heaven and earth are called the way. If he understands the way of yin and yang, he will naturally be moderate and perfect in the performance of everything. His name is The difference between yin and yang between men and women, the character shapes are divided into masculine and feminine, and the character strokes have odd and even numbers. The Tai Chi diagram shows that there is yang in yin and yin in yang.
The Book of Changes says: "Yin alone cannot be born, and yang alone cannot grow." Therefore, from the above concept, we can see that a person's name must be in harmony with yin and yang, and it is best to be in the middle. If it is too strong, it will be broken. , too soft and inaction is an art, but the name of a person is of great importance. Don't not think about it because you don't understand it, and seriously choose a good name for yourself and others. Otherwise, you will become an ostrich mentality, otherwise it will be a common name. "iron teeth" or "disbelief in evil". If you have an "iron tooth" mentality, it is just a "frog in the well" mentality, just a stubborn person. There is no end to the knowledge of the universe, and even if a person spends his entire life pursuing it, he cannot even pursue it. If he still denies a piece of knowledge with superficial and limited knowledge, isn’t it just a frog in a well, deceiving himself and others?
Everything in the world is inseparable from Yin and Yang. Yin and Yang themselves do not have absolute good or evil, and it depends on their proportion and situation. And we must further consider the thoughts of the three talents of "heaven", "earth" and "man". Heaven is for time, humans are for people and things, and earth is for space.
The naming of a person also needs to match the "heaven" factor of time, from different dynasties, different environmental societies, and different years of birth. The same name has different interpretations in different years and times. For example, those born in "Qing" in the year of Renchen can get help, because the left side of the character "Qing" is water. If you are born in Renchen, Renqian is also water, Chen is dragon, and dragon also likes water, so he is called the Sea Dragon King. The image on the right side of the word "Qing" is also consistent with the dragon being the king and the dragon having the advantage of the moon and the pearl.
But it is also the word "Qing". If the person is born in the year of Ji, the heavenly stem "Ji" is earth, and earth controls water. Therefore, the water on the left side of the word "Qing" will not necessarily be beneficial to the person born in the year of Ji, but will cause damage. force. What's more, those born under the age of 10 are born in the zodiac of Sheep. Sheep don't like to drink water, so they choose names with the radical "water" in them, which can cause indigestion and affect their health. The same word has different meanings at different times.
Let’s talk about the “people” part. “People” refers to human relations and the five ethical relationships. In China, the relationships between monarchs and ministers, couples, children and six relatives must be taken into consideration. For example, the name of a son cannot be the same as the name of his father or grandfather. Some families have genealogical naming considerations, which is an example. The Chinese say that "the sky is big, the earth is big, and the mother's movement is the biggest." This means that our name cannot be overlapped with the name of our maternal uncle. Otherwise, even if it is a good name, it will not be able to exert its influence. This is China’s unique ethical relationship and must be understood.
Secondly, we must also consider "land", that is, environmental issues. In different places, people have different preferences for their vocabulary. Northerners, southerners, mountain people, seaside people, Hakkas, Hokkien people, etc., will have different associations with a word. We should also pay attention to it. Avoid jokes that resemble homophones. It originally had a good meaning, but it was misunderstood as an indecent association, which would be bad.
After considering Yin Yang and the Three Talents, the most important "Five Elements" need to be used flexibly. "The Five Elements are not always victorious", and the good and bad luck of everything is also the interaction of the Five Elements. There are many names in the book, Most names are divided into five elements: heaven, earth, human, outer and total, and then compare their birth and restraint relationships, focusing on the five elements of personality, and compare them with other elements. Generally speaking, if the five elements are in harmony or in harmony with each other, it is auspicious, and if they are in conflict with each other, it is unlucky. However, such a conclusion is too arbitrary and superficial. However, we do not realize that "the five elements are not always victorious", that mutual growth is not necessarily auspicious, and that mutual restraint is not necessarily bad. Sometimes the conflict can stimulate the characteristics of the five elements.
For example, wood needs to be carved with gold before it can be used as a vessel or work of art. Therefore, if metal overcomes wood, it can become a weapon. However, if heavy metal is used to overcome wood, the wood will not be broken into a weapon, but will become a weapon. In the same way, the same is true for the other five elements. Water can generate wood, and water can also flood wood; earth can generate gold, and earth can also bury pans; fire can refine gold, and fire can also melt gold; wood can generate fire, and wood can also conquer earth. . We cannot blindly believe in the concepts of birth, comparison and luck. The use of the five elements is actually quite artistic. And those who can use the Five Elements are those who understand the principles of the universe.