Rise and Fall: Civilization of War
Real-time strategy+action game total war+unparalleled combination
The most important thing is that the first person can go to the battlefield to lead people to fight, just like riding a horse to kill.
Pirates in Sidmel
It is also low-key, robbing, attacking the city, begging for a wife, and upgrading. It seems that apart from being unable to stand on their own feet, one is a medieval knight and the other is a Caribbean pirate.
Or you can try the fable of ghosts. The protagonist's character is completely cultivated by you.
It's all low-key I have searched for a long time and hope to adopt it.