Will this story of a father naming his child give you some experience?
Gargamel Parenting
May 05·Creator in the field of high-quality parenting
Name, when it comes to naming your child, there will be Many parents and friends are very distressed. Even mothers and fathers who have experience naming their first child will worry about this matter. He said that he wanted to give his child a name that was both nice and loving, but he always thought about it for a long time and was not satisfied with it.
I often mobilize relatives and friends around me to help come up with a name, thinking that by gathering the opinions of hundreds of people, I will be able to come up with a satisfactory name. This is what many friends often talk about. So and so came to me about naming their children.
In fact, there is also a father named Ji who found friends around him to help with ideas about naming his child. Needless to say, my friend’s advice still has merit, because the father named Ji is from the Northeast and from Jilin. He and his wife also met in Jilin City, Jilin Province. In this case, it would be better to give the child a name. Jilin’s name couldn’t be more appropriate.
When Dad Ji heard his friend say this, he felt suddenly enlightened. Why didn’t I think of it after he kept saying it? Yes, children are the combination of parents' love and the best witnesses of their parents' love. It was decided that it would be called Jilin.
However, when Ji’s father was applying for a birth certificate for his child, something unexpected happened. It turned out that the child's name was Jilin, but the nurse accidentally typed the wrong birth certificate and typed it as Jimumu. When Bao's father carefully read the name on the child's birth certificate, he smiled without anger: Don't change it, this name is better than Jilin, two trees form a forest, and it is grand.
In this way, a strange misunderstanding turned out to be a beautiful thing, giving Ji's father, who had been worried about his child's name for a long time, an unexpected surprise. It also gives advice from another perspective to parents who want to name their children.
01. You don’t need to be too deliberate when naming your children.
The example of Ji’s father is a good example. Tell more parents that this is the reason for naming their children. Sometimes there is no need to be too deliberate, but the feeling of naturally showing love is lost.
For example, in the end, the child’s name was changed due to the nurse’s mistake. Although the meaning of the previous name was greatly changed, it was a good name that was less likely to have duplicate names and had more unique connotations. . I have to say that such a mistake turned out to be a gratifying and beautiful thing.
This also gives us an idea when naming our children, that is, don’t be too deliberate and have to think about the problem from certain angles. This often results in a fixed pattern of naming, which makes it more interesting. It is easy for popular models to have names that lose their novelty.
02. When naming a child, you should set a minimum bottom line
The bottom line mentioned here refers to which word is most taboo in the family and cannot be used for children. The name, and some families have genealogy, so they need to add this word in the child's name, so that it cannot be thrown away. Wait, it will require parents to have a certain understanding.
Of course, the name we give our children must also conform to the characteristics of the current era, and give the child a name that is more characteristic of the era in which he lives. In addition, we should also take into account issues such as national standards, local customs and other humanistic characteristics, and try not to give children names that are more like Japanese or Western characteristics.
In fact, the above are suggestions for naming your children. You can also gain some experience by sharing the story of the father with the surname Ji, which can help you improve yourself when naming your children. Multiple materials.
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