Before Granny Liu was named, Qiaojie didn't have a name, not only a first name, but also a nickname. Qiaojie is mentioned in the book, right? Big sister? Big sister? To call. As the great granddaughter of Jia Mu, why doesn't she even have a name? This is because neither Jia Mu nor Jia Lian likes Qiaojie very much.
Qiaojie was born on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month, so the old lady didn't like Qiaojie very much. In the past, July in the lunar calendar was considered as a ghost month, and this month was unlucky. Qiaojieer was born in the seventh fold, which is extremely cloudy in the yin, which is even worse.
Now we think that the seventh day of July is Tanabata, which is very romantic. But in the past, people didn't think so. In ancient times, people thought that Tanabata was a day of separation. Weaver girl was not only separated from Cowherd, but also experienced the separation of mother and child. It was a sad and sad day. Qiaojie was born on such a date, which shows that she is not a blessed person.
In A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Mu didn't even have any contact with Qiaojie. Not only does Grandmother Jia dislike Qiaojie's birthday, but even Wang Xifeng herself says that this production is unlucky. It's just that as a mother, Wang Xifeng has no choice. Even if she is unlucky again, she can only love.
Wang Xifeng is Jia Lian's wife, and Jia Lian has no accident, so she will attack the knight in the future. If this baby of Wang Xifeng is a boy, then her position will be stable. Unfortunately, Qiaojie is a girl. Therefore, her father didn't like her, and didn't even give her a name.
In the past, girls' names were usually given by their elders. Jia doesn't take it, and Jia Lian, as a father, is also qualified to take it. But they didn't take it to heart, which led to Qiaojie being so old that she still didn't have a decent name.
It was not until Granny Liu came home that Wang Xifeng talked about it, hoping Granny Liu could help to choose a name. Wang Xifeng hopes that with granny Liu, Qiaojie's life can be suppressed. Fortunately, grandma Liu has a high emotional intelligence, so what's the use? Coincidentally? The word solved the embarrassment of Qixi birthday.