Do you want to give your child a name that is easy to write, easy to read, easy to pronounce, easy to hear, easy to remember, and elegant but not vulgar? Do you want your child to be blessed with good luck because of a good name?
In fact, a person’s name is just a symbol. It is the code that a person needs in future social activities. Although the uniqueness of the code cannot be achieved, in the end It is best not to use a name that is called too many by others, otherwise it will not only lack personality, but also make people think that your child's name is a bit tacky, because the name is not like a fashionable name, and you can buy a new one after a while. Lao Ai believes that when naming a child, one should consider the following aspects based on one's own surname and the hope one has for one's children:
(1) ~ Name the child It cannot be too casual, it must keep pace with the times, and have a sense of the times. It cannot be like in the past, when spring flowers are called orchids, summer flowers are called lotus, autumn flowers are called chrysanthemums, and winter flowers are called plum blossoms. The "five golden flowers" are one flower short; Those born in Beijing are called Beisheng (white life), those born in Nanchang are called Nansheng (hard life), and those born in Xi'an are called Xisheng (sacrifice)... Such a name will make people feel that you lack culture and ambition. I used to have a neighbor. The eldest son is called Shui Gen and the younger son is called Gen Shui (perhaps he/she was a master of number combinations when they were in school). It feels like they only know the word "水" and the word "root". Fortunately, they only have Two boys, otherwise the third son would not know what to name. Naming a child at will is irresponsible to the child, a dereliction of duty as a parent, and disrespectful to oneself.
(2) ~ Do not choose Chinese characters that are uncommon or easy to mispronounce, or too difficult to write (even some characters cannot be found on a computer), otherwise it will affect you In social interactions, not only is it inconvenient to write by yourself, but it also takes a long time to explain yourself, and others are reluctant to introduce and recommend you to others because they are afraid that they will misunderstand the words and say your name incorrectly. In the case of representatives, etc., some people will not choose you because your name is difficult to pronounce and write, causing you to miss many opportunities for promotion.
(3)~Don’t choose to use names that others often call or use too many names, otherwise it will make people think that the parents are uneducated and tacky. This is Like a beautiful piece of clothing, if the whole class buys it, it becomes a school uniform; if all colleagues wear it, it becomes a work uniform. In addition, it is easy to have the same name as others, especially a big surname. According to relevant statistics, only one district in Wuhan has dozens of people named Zhang Aiguo and Li Jianguo, and nearly a hundred people named Wang Bing. For example, my surname is Ai (Ai is a small surname, ranked 293). It is not easy to have the same name as others. Single or double names are acceptable.
(4)~The name given to the child should have some meaning~either to commemorate, to have sustenance, or to have expectations. For example: if you want your child to grow up and pursue an official career, use the words country, strength, loyalty, ambition, etc.; if you want to be a high official, use dragon, phoenix, tiger, etc.; if you want your child to be able to read, then choose wisdom, wisdom, Books, etc.; if you want your children to be safe and healthy, choose peace, safety, health, prosperity, happiness, etc.; if you want to be beautiful, choose handsome, cool, beautiful, beautiful, etc.; if you want to do business or be a boss, choose wealth, wealth, gold, etc. Money, hair, prosperity, etc. I know a friend named You Meijin, who is a very successful business owner. Lao Ai is very envious of his parents for giving him a good name ~ You Meijin = You Meijin = Money to use, if my parents named me ~Ai Pound=Love Pound=More rich, that would be great [face covering], or name it~Ai Diamond=Love diamonds, maybe I am a Diamond Ai Laowu now [laughing and crying]. Although I don’t believe that a person’s name determines a person’s life, I do think that a person’s name will more or less affect a person’s thinking and behavior, because the name will remind and motivate one to work hard and struggle.
(5)~The name must not only be easy to write and read, but also easy to pronounce, listen to, and remember. It must not only be personalized, but also friendly. Helps children and young adults make friends. Be careful to avoid names that have the same pronunciation or homophony as unlucky words, indecent nicknames, or even insulting names. They should not have the same name as a well-known villain, otherwise it will affect the growth of the child.
For example, if my surname is Ai, boys should not be called "Ai Li" or "Ai Li", and girls should not be called "Ai Li" or "Ai Li", otherwise it will be like "I love you" [laughing and crying], and others (especially the opposite sex) I don’t want to call you, and it’s embarrassing when I introduce myself; I can’t call you “Ai Shengbin” ~ it sounds like “love disease”, let alone “Ai Zhibin” ~ otherwise it sounds like “AIDS” [ shed tears].
(6)~The name should not make people unable to distinguish between men and women, let alone misjudge gender. The name should neither be feminine for boys nor masculine for girls, otherwise it will It affects the child's character, causing jokes in accommodation and other arrangements in many social activities. In work and social life, it will also make people feel that men are not strong enough and women lack gentleness. Your abilities will be undermined in work and life. Underestimating it and not using it properly will affect your leadership image if you become a leader.
(7) ~ It is best to have a name of three characters. A single name is easy to have the same name and surname as others, especially a big surname. When I was studying, there were two classmates in the class with the same surname ~ The surname is Zhou, and although the names are not the same characters, the pronunciation of the characters is the same. When the roll call came, neither of them knew who they were calling. Later, the teacher and classmates could only call the male Zhou Moumou and the female Zhou Moumou. Long or multi-character names are difficult to pronounce, write, and remember. For example, a four-character name like Ai is not only difficult to pronounce, but also makes people think that Lao Ai is a fake foreigner. Therefore, Lao Ai recommends using three-character names as much as possible, which can carry more appeals and positive information such as positivity and upliftment than a single name.
(8) ~ After having a good name, you must also help your children understand and become familiar with the meaning of their name. Explain the shape, pronunciation and meaning of the characters one by one when children start school. It is best to associate their names with some allusions or myths, so that they can easily remember them and speak confidently to them. When introduced by others, it sounds romantic and sunny to others.
For example: My surname is Ai, and Ai is the same as love. Lao Ai told us that if the young people in the Ai family give birth to a baby this year, they should name it "Ai Bing" " and "Ai Xue" ~ "Love Ice" and "Love Snow", which can not only contain the commemorative significance of the Beijing Winter Olympics, but also have the lively and lovely meanings of "Bingdundun" and "Xuerongrong", which can not only cultivate them They have been fond of ice and snow sports since they were young, and it can also inspire them to work hard and fight like our country's Winter Olympic athletes.
Friends: Give your child a name that is easy to write, easy to read, easy to pronounce, easy to listen to, easy to remember, and gives a lot of positive energy! Let him/her speak confidently and sound bright to others. A name cannot determine your life, but your name can affect your life!