? Word: Jing xian
? No.: none
? Father: Ding Yuanxian (word Shaobo)
? Mother: Deng
? Native place: Changxing, Zhejiang (now Changxing County, Huzhou City, Zhejiang Province)
? Animal sign: chicken
? Talent: poetry, guqin
? Born: December 18th, the second year of Shunzhi (1645)
? Date of death: December 26th, 14th year of Kangxi (1675)
? All year round: 31 years old
? Cause of death: illness
? Marital status: married
? Husband: Zang Meixi (word meson,No. Xieting)
? Poetry collection: All Green Xuan Collection
? Existing words: 9
? Characteristics of ci poetry: lingering feelings
stands for evaluation: weaving the bottom of the spring and removing dust eyes. It's appropriate and light, and it's full of emotion. -Mao Zhihuang and Sun Yutai (Qing)
? Because I haven't seen Clivia in her bedroom and Xiangfeizhu in front of the window, I haven't seen the banana in her small yard and the green radish crawling all over the attic. So that when I first studied her, I couldn't figure out why this woman named her boudoir "All Green Xuan".
Even her poetry collection is simply named "All Green Xuan Collection".
It wasn't until one day that the cross "Hold the green hills in my arms and look everywhere green" suddenly came to my mind that I realized what a poetic name "All Green Xuan" is!
? It's not a fairy tale, but I like the smell of the green field, which makes people think. As if you can see the "All Green Xuan" in the faint place of Castle Peak, there is a quiet and refined girl sitting by the window with a book in her hand.
? Now, the "Green Pavilion" has long since disappeared, and I am still reminiscing about Xiao Xuan's former hostess alone. Her name is Ding Yu, a talented woman who lived in Zhejiang during the Kangxi period more than 36 years ago.
Let's start with the turbulent early Qing Dynasty.
December 18th, the second year of Shunzhi (1645), was a stormy day.
At that time, the pain of national subjugation was still spreading in the hearts of many Ming adherents. No matter whether it is inappropriate or not, this day, a baby girl quietly came to Ding Yuanxian's home in Changxing County.
This baby girl, who met with the heavy snow and came to the world from Yaotai, is Ding Yu.
According to the Records of Changxing County, Ding Yu's father's name is Ding Yuanxian, the son of Ding Jianshi. Ding Yuanxian is not only kind at ordinary times, but also a famous dutiful son. He has a characteristic, that is, he likes to be generous and helpful, especially to his fellow villagers.
Although Ding Yuanxian studies hard, it's a pity that he always tries again and again. Therefore, he either entertains himself with piano books at home behind closed doors all day, or goes to find friends to drink to relieve boredom.
On this day, Ding Yuanxian went to a friend's house in a neighboring village to drink. Just as he was sighing about his failure to make a name for himself in this life, a fellow countryman came panting and said to him, "Young Bo, great joy, great joy!" "
Ding Yuanxian turned around and asked inexplicably, "You see, I've been worried to death all day. I don't know where the joy came from?"
"It's really a big joy. Your wife just gave birth to a daughter." Seeing a fellow countryman solemnly say so, Ding Yuanxian felt secretly pleased and had a long-lost smile on his face.
I saw him quickly put down his wine chopsticks, said goodbye to his friends in a hurry, raised his legs and went out.
Ding Yuanxian faced the storm all the way and couldn't wait to get home in ten steps. You know, Ding Yuanxian is 52 years old this year. You can imagine his joy at being an old woman.
As soon as Ding Yuanxian stepped into the house, he quickly took off his bamboo hat, patted the snow off his body and quickly came to the bed. He looked at his wife Deng happily, pointed to the infant beside her with his finger, and said eagerly, "Come on, give me a hug."
? "Be gentle." Deng Xiaoping picked up the baby to remind Ding Yuanxian.
Ding Yuanxian carefully took the baby, looked at his daughter who was sleeping soundly, and happily said to himself, "Jade, jade!"
Deng looked at him puzzled.
? Ding Yuanxian said with a smile, "On my way home, I have already chosen the name of my daughter, named Ding Yu." Seeing that his wife was still puzzled, he explained, "
? The word "Yu" means "beautiful jade". Zhou Yu of Zhou Lang in the Three Kingdoms period, I have heard of it. He is also the word' Yu'. "
"Oh?" Deng then asked, "What's the girl's word?"
"Where does a child pick up words when he is born?" Ding Yuanxian glanced at his wife.
Deng suddenly sighed, "You know, I have always been in poor health. If I die one day, wouldn't it be a pity that I don't even know my daughter's words? Besides, you are knowledgeable, isn't it easy to get a word? Just prepare for your daughter in advance, what's the harm? "
"What's so sad? Don't you talk nonsense again. " Ding Yuanxian's expression is very serious, and his tone seems a bit heavy.
Deng was unhappy and then turned around.
Ding Yuanxian quickly coaxed and said, "Ok, don't be angry. Isn't it just a word? I'll take it for my niece. " Hearing this, the Deng family turned around with a smile through tears.
Ding Yuanxian put the baby in front of his wife's eyes and said with a smile, "Look carefully, this girl looks as gentle as me and as demure as you. When she grows up, she will be a woman who knows books and is polite. Just take the word' Jing Xian'."
"Jing Xian-"Deng's mouth gently called and nodded with satisfaction.
two?
Ding Yu was clever and clever since childhood, and was loved by her parents. In particular, Ding Yuanxian, who is a father, cherishes her as a treasure. Looking at her daughter's growth day by day, Ding Yuanxian has long forgotten his frustration and pain in the imperial examination for many years.
However, no matter how a daughter is the baby and heart of her parents, her cultural education is essential. When Ding Yu was four years old, Ding Yuanxian taught her to read more than a thousand words. By the time Ding Yu is six years old, she will have learned hundreds of Tang poems by heart. When Ding Yu was seven years old, Ding Yuanxian gave her the skill of playing the piano.
It's like quicksand to go to Qiu Lai in spring.
In this way, Ding Yu gradually grew into a graceful girl under the care of her parents and the influence of literature. Ding Yu, a girl, lived a carefree life. She has a beautiful and quiet poem, which reads:
The wood, stone, wind and flowers are all around, and the lonely door and lane have been deserted for a long time.
In the past years, when the swallows were heavy, they believed that friendship was unique.
When writing this poem "Home", Ding Yu was only thirteen or fourteen years old.
Although she seldom contacts people on weekdays, she never feels lonely and bored. Because it's only the deep alley in front of the house that is lonely, and it's also the yellow dog that barks from time to time in the alley that is boring. As written in the poem, she happily became neighbors with wood, stone, wind and flowers in nature every day, and happily became close friends with the old Yan under the eaves.
In "All Green Xuan", she reads, writes, recites poems and plays the piano every day. Sometimes, my mother also teaches her women's virtue and needlework. She is quiet and refined, and her body and mind are quietly changing with the four seasons. She looked forward to a beautiful life, silently waiting for herself to get on the sedan chair with a red hijab one day, and married out of the familiar deep alley at home amid the drumming.
Ding Yu's betrothed family is a Zang family from a fellow villager, and her fiance's name is Zang Meixi. Because Zang Jia and Ding Jiazu have an in-laws relationship, the two families have always been in contact. Zang Mei Xizi Jiezi, named Xieting, is the eldest son of a collector, who is the author of Collected Works of Xieting. This man is loyal and filial, and he is a talented young man, so he is deeply loved by Ding Yu's father Ding Yuanxian.
Later, when Zang Meixi visited Guqintai during his tenure as a magistrate in Lushan, Henan Province, he also wrote the poem "One day's mountain tune, a thousand years' bosom friend mourned", which was widely circulated at one time.
There is such an anecdote about Zang Meixi.
When Zang Meixi was ten years old, one day several friends were playing in the village. A bearded Taoist happened to pass by here, met Zang Meixi, and suddenly stopped to look at him and said, "Oh, no, you are so childish and extraordinary!" " The young Zang Meixi was surprised to hear this. Unexpectedly, the Taoist priest then sighed and said, "Although you have great spirit, it's a pity that your life is doomed to be out of touch with gold, only with mountains and rivers." I don't have a chance with red powder, but I can have a relationship with friends. "
When he finished speaking, the Taoist priest drifted away.
All these words of the mysterious Taoist priest were later verified by Zang Meixi. Not to mention the rest, but the long statement that he was "out of luck with red powder" was really a prophecy. Because Ding Yu died young at the age of 3, isn't that to say that Zang Meixi had no chance with Pink?
Three
In a blink of an eye, in the seventeenth year of Shunzhi (166), Ding Yu, who was sixteen years old, married Zang Meixi. When proposing marriage, Zang Meixi's parents took out one-third of all the property of Zang's family.
On the second day of their wedding, the couple are going to get up early. According to the old custom, as a bride, she has to get up early the next day and go to the lobby to meet her in-laws. )
Ding Yuxian got up and finished grooming, and suddenly said to Zang Meixi, "Husband, I have something to discuss with you."
"What do you want to discuss with me? It is the wife who is the master. "
Zang Meixi was dressing, so she answered casually.
Ding Yu asked, "There is one thing I don't understand. Why don't your brothers share as much as your fortune?" You are the same flesh and blood of Zang's family. How can it be so unfair? "
"this, this. . . . . 。”
Zang Meixi was stunned by Ding Yu's two questions in a row and suddenly became speechless.
Ding Yu went on: "Didn't you just say that I should make my own decisions? Well, I'll tell my in-laws later that you and I can't take more of the Zang family's property, just share our share. " Hearing Ding Yu's remarks, Zang Meixi looked very surprised. He had no idea that the newly-married wife in front of him had the mind and knowledge of a gentleman. Think about it, too. If this matter were left to another woman, she would never make such a decision.
? After a while, Ding Yu met her in-laws, and in front of her parents, she resolutely burned the evidence that she and her husband shared more property. As soon as the news came out, people in the neighboring villages all gave thumbs up and praised Ding Yu as a woman who really understood the righteousness.
? A month after their marriage, Ding Yu advised Zang Meixi to go to a learning hall near Guhu to study. Zang Meixi followed his wife's advice and went to the school library to study. Later, she dropped out of school because of the closure of the school library.
During the days when the husband and wife were separated, Ding Yu wrote some poems in memory of Zang Meixi, such as this song "Sauvignon Blanc". Memories of the outside world:
Listen to the bell and count the cold. Outside the window, the banana drops into the light, and the dream is ruthless.
thin and light, jade hairpin is horizontal. Seeing that Xinhong's word has not been completed, it is necessary to stay up and wake up.
One cold winter night, she woke up from her sleep. At this time, she found that it was already the fifth watch outside the window. Before sitting alone on the case, she listened to the faint bell from the temple in the distance, and then listened to the sound of the rain hitting the banana in the yard.
So, why on earth can't she sleep after waking up? In the word, she didn't tell us directly, but solved the reader's doubts with the words "Xinhong word is not completed". It turned out that she wanted to write a letter from home to him because she missed her husband. However, she didn't know what to write for a while, which made her delay in writing.
Ding Yu's poem is graceful and profound, and the phrase "the banana drops to the bright" is skillfully and metaphorically used. The rain outside the window and the tears of the newcomers in the room tell us the pain of separation between husband and wife. In fact, the most interesting thing is the last sentence of "non-staying awake." It means that people can't sleep and can't write letters, not because they were drunk last night.
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In order to make her husband a more knowledgeable person, Ding Yu sold some gold and silver jewelry that she married as a financial aid to her husband.
In the second year of Kangxi (1663), the couple came to the 18 streams of Jiuxi in Hangzhou West Lake. Here, Zang Meixi also got to know Mao Jike, a famous scholar, and forged a lifelong friendship with him.
In the evening, the smoke is fascinated by the ancient crossing, and the wind and fog lock the autumn peak.
The leaves are falling, the pavilions are full, and the streams are connected by bamboo paths.
In the Collection of Poems of Hangjun edited by Wu Hao, a Qing Dynasty, it is recorded that: "Jing Xian lived on the lake for a long time, with beautiful sunshine and rainy colors, and wrote beautifully." The creation time and background of this five-character poem "Nine Days in West Leng" should be the Double Ninth Festival in September of the third year of Kangxi (1664). At that time, Ding Yu accompanied her husband to play in Xiling, West Lake.
The ancient ferry is suffused with light smoke-like water vapor. The peaks in the distance are obscured by layers of white fog. While enjoying the beautiful scenery, the two of them whispered something. Perhaps, in * * * with a sigh of a generation of famous prostitute Su Xiaoxiao's unfortunate life and love.
Although the scenery is beautiful, it is getting late. He walked out of the pavilion hand in hand with her. She tilted her head against his shoulder and they walked leisurely. Four feet stepped on the ground covered with maple leaves, and there was a burst of "rustling" sound.
They walked along a path with swaying bamboo leaves, and there was a shallow stream beside the road, which kept flowing forward. . . . . .
Ding Yu is good at combining the far and near scenery skillfully, creating a night smoke and an ancient crossing.