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According to the older generation, when naming a baby, the smaller and more casual the name, the easier it is for the child to support him. Adhering to this concept, many grandparents like to choose some very small and random names when naming their grandchildren. The idea is good, but the reality is not the same.
A little girl was isolated by her classmates just because her grandma gave her a name. Naming is very important
"We don’t want to play with you. It’s just that no one cares about you in the field. You little weed that no one loves, just go play with yourself." After hearing the heart-wrenching words of his classmates, Wang Tiancao sat down in his seat silently.
She has been living alone since she was a child. She basically has no friends, and every time others laugh at her for being a coward.
My father said that my grandma gave me the name. Wang Tiancao means weeds in the field. He hoped that I could be like the weeds, live strong, be easy to feed, and save my family from having to worry about.
I didn’t notice anything wrong with this name at first, but after entering the second grade of elementary school, someone openly laughed at this name in the class. From then on, the nightmare of my school days began.
Gradually, the classmates began to talk about it. Not only did they look down on the name Wang Tiancao, they even looked down upon her as a whole. Later, he was isolated by his classmates. Even his friends who used to play well with him are now hiding far away. It is really ironic to myself. The reason is just because of this name.
Every time she cried and complained to her parents about her name, her parents always didn’t take it to heart. The more times she complained about her name, Wang Tiancao’s parents became very impatient: “Your grandma gave me the name. Yes, if you want to change it, go find her to change it! If you don’t study hard all day long and struggle with your name every day, I’ve never seen a child like you.”
Faced with the ridicule of her classmates and the incomprehension of her parents, Odagasa's character became more and more withdrawn. If her academic performance was relatively good at the beginning, with the trouble of her name and the isolation of her classmates, her grades deteriorated. It has plummeted even more, and now it is in a complete mess.
The ideological concepts of the older generation have long been outdated. Naming children is too casual, or naming them too young is not a matter of whether they are easy to feed or not, but a matter of letting the children raise their heads and raise their heads. A problem that never comes to an end.
In modern society, children are all arrogant, and having such an old-fashioned name will have a certain adverse impact on them.
When choosing a name for your baby, you must not be too "casual". It has nothing to do with raising your child. It has a scientific basis.
It will make the child unable to hold his head up and create an inferiority complex
Naming a child is too "random", such as Wangtiancao, which is like a weed in a field. It has a derogatory meaning for the education level of children today, so it is very likely that the child will not be able to care about it. Get started.
The child himself is very good, but because of the name, he will have an inferiority complex and feel that he is inferior to others, which is very detrimental to the child's growth.
B will be laughed at by the people around him, causing a psychological gap
Children speak carelessly and without restraint. The more words like this, the more hurtful they are when they are spoken. If a child is given a name that is too old-fashioned and too random, it can easily lead to ridicule from people around him, and it may even turn into a personal attack, which will have a lifelong psychological shadow on the child, with very serious consequences.
C is not conducive to the establishment of first impression and hinders development
The name itself is a business card of oneself. It is the first impression given to others and can also reflect the connotation of a family. and educational level.
A name that is too old-fashioned will make people think that the person is just like the name. If he is not outstanding, he will not be taken seriously. Many times, children will miss opportunities because of a name, which will hinder their future development. possible.
Don’t look at this small name. It is not only a title, but also a person’s first impression of a child. Therefore, a good name is really important in today’s society.
Naming your child is neither easy nor simple. As long as you avoid these points, a good name will come easily
1. Don’t name your child too “ostentatiously”
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2. Don’t name your child too “humorous”
3. Don’t name your child too “cold”
4. Don’t name your child Too "too difficult to pronounce"
Naming a child is a big deal. It represents not only a symbol, but also the first impression on people and reflects the mental outlook of the whole person. In the process of naming their children, parents must not be casual and try to give their children a good name that is catchy and full of meaning, so that the children can carry their own hopes and sustenance and fly towards a better future.