Once upon a time, there was a little boy with a bad temper. One day, his father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence of his backyard. On the first day, the little boy *** hammered 37 nails into the fence.
Over the course of a few weeks, the boy hammered fewer nails into the fence each day as he learned to control his anger. He found it easier to control his bad temper than to hammer nails into the fence. Finally, the little boy became less angry.
He told his father about his transformation. His father then suggested, "If you can last a whole day without losing your temper, pull out one nail from the fence." After a while, the little boy finally pulled out all the nails from the fence.
The father took his hand and came to the fence and said to the little boy: Son, you did a good job. But when you look at all those little holes those nails left in the fence, the fence will never be the same again. When you lose your temper to others, your words are like these nail holes, leaving scars in people's hearts.
Doing this is like stabbing someone in the body with a knife and then pulling it out. No matter how many times you say you're sorry, the wound will always be there. In fact, words hurt people just as much as hurting them physically.
Summary review:
This story tells us that hurtful words are like nails on a door frame, which will leave scars on people. Vicious words are an invisible blade. , Bad temper is undesirable, hurting others and yourself will make you isolated and helpless. Controlling your bad temper will make you happier and make more friends.
The story of the nail tells us that we must be honest and aboveboard in dealing with people to reduce the occurrence of mistakes. Every time you lose your temper, you cause spiritual harm to others.
Persistence between people often causes permanent harm because of some unresolved persistence. In fact, no one wants to have their souls "nailed" full of holes, so please control your temper and mouth.