Children's names and elders
Children's names and elders' names have been attached importance to since ancient times, and there are many taboos, which have been handed down for a long time. It is not difficult to choose a good name. The following children's names and elders' names are attached importance to. It is taboo to repeat children's names after three generations. According to legend, names within three generations should not have the same pronunciation, because it would be unlucky and disrespectful to one's elders. This sentence has been handed down since ancient times, and in modern times, some people still abide by this rule. If the elders insist, parents should respect the relevant regulations when naming their children, and don't name their children with the same pronunciation and words as the elders.
From a modern point of view, the saying that "names within three generations can't have the same pronunciation, otherwise it will be unlucky" belongs to feudal superstition and has no scientific basis. Of course, many people hold the idea of "believing in it rather than believing in it". Even if it is not a feudal superstition, when naming children, they will still avoid homophones and words with their elders.
The names of elders are fixed. When naming your children, you don't pay attention to the same words as your elders, which is a great disrespect to your elders. There are many ways to name names, all of which have good meaning. We can even use homophones to replace the original characters and play different roles.
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Some parents don't pay attention to the names, so they give their children an awkward name, and they are tongue-tied. An easy-to-pronounce name can not only make others know your child better, but also make your child full of confidence. Names are closely related to children's lives. Parents should be careful when naming their children, and they should not act rashly, so as not to bring unnecessary troubles to their lives. Children's names are the same as those of their elders. 2
Seven taboos for baby names
The first taboo: avoid "excessive" names
Everything is measured. It's also best not to go off the mark or overdo it. Naming is mostly to express ambition, desire, personality, etc., but many people in life have gone too far or gone too far in naming.
there are usually two kinds of situations: one is "boasting" and exaggerating too much. Such as Li Weili, Guan Wanguo, He Neng, Wan Li Tiger, Yue Shanhe, etc. Second, excessive "self-modesty", even self-deprecating and self-abasing. Such as Wang Zhuo, Zhang Yu and Jiao Yu.
the second taboo: the name should be gender-neutral
The name was originally used to facilitate people's communication, but many people's names in life are neither fish nor fowl. No matter what the original intention is, this naming method of "no man or no woman" will objectively bring negative influence to interpersonal relations. The natural attributes of both sexes in temperament and personality make women mostly use words that reflect tenderness, beauty and virtue, while men are mostly used to name them with words that reflect vigor, broadmindedness and grandeur. But these do not mean denying the strong side of women and the weak side of men's hearts, but a general overall impression.
The name should be personalized, but moderate, and the gender difference should not be completely blurred, "neither male nor female", which is not realistic, harmful and useless, and should be suppressed and promoted.
the third taboo: avoid "following" great men and sages when naming
Great men and sages are admirable, but this admiration does not have to be expressed by copying the names of celebrities. This kind of behavior itself is just a mechanical application, without creativity, and it also masks its original personality.
the fourth taboo: the naming taboo "shallow" and "negative"
There are negative and languid words in the name, which may cause unexpected erosion and harm to the soul of the name owner, and will also affect others and society, so it should be avoided.
Names are superficial in meaning, lacking in self-restraint and artistic conception. When they first meet their names, they give people a very boring feeling, and then they lose the role they should play. For example, Wang Yi, Man Cang, Laixi, Dayou, Fugui, etc., such names are like unprocessed stones, and it is difficult to give people a sense of beauty. The name content is single and superficial, so it can't attract people's attention and gain people's favor, as dull as a glass of white water; Only by being rich in variety and increasing depth will the name not play its due role.
fifth bogey: the meaning of naming bogey is obsolete
naming names according to "old conventions" and applying "common sayings" reflect backward values and aesthetic consciousness, which are all manifestations of "vulgarity". In real life, many people still name names around Fu Shou An Kang, Yao Zu Guang Zong, the Three Cardinal Principles and the Five Permanent Principles, such as Ma Jinbao, Chang Chang De, Li Laifu, Zhang Zongli, Zhao Shouxian, etc.
The sixth taboo: the word "."appears in the name, which is prone to mispronouncing and misspelling, distorting the meaning of the name itself. And on many occasions, it will bring unnecessary trouble, such as computer input, bank account opening and so on.
the seventh taboo: name is vulgar and vulgar
it will be a lifelong regret to take a vulgar name, just like a handsome and beautiful person wearing a dirty dress.
If you have an elegant and cultured name, even if this person is not elegant, he will be more elegant in the eyes of people who don't know him. Elegant names are not only memorable, but also like a breath, unconsciously edifying the soul of the name owner, improving his behavior and playing a subtle role. Children's names are the same as those of their elders. 3
Eight taboos for baby's name
1. Don't use ugly words, things or phenomena in baby's name.
Don't use ugly words, things or phenomena in name. It is disrespectful to people to use ugly words as names.
2. Don't use the word "evil" when naming a baby
Don't use the word "evil", "evil" and "robbery". Because these names are unlucky, they will cause unnecessary mental stress.
3. Don't use bad words in baby's name
If you use bad words in your name, you will easily feel depressed and depressed, but lifeless and uplifting names are not desirable. Words such as lack, meanness, coldness and abandonment.
4. Don't use suspected words in baby's name
Don't use suspected words in name. The so-called suspected words refer to words that people are particularly sensitive to, and there are some homophonic words, which should also be avoided.
5. It is meaningless to choose a name and avoid using words
A name must have the meaning of auspiciousness. If the name has no meaning, is not smooth, is not harmonious, or even goes against common sense.
6. Don't use negative words in baby's name
Don't use negative words in baby's name, and negative words include delicate, sad and gloomy. Such as forbearance, national mourning and laziness represent the above three types of names. Naming should have educational, inspiring, aesthetic and educational functions. Therefore, naming with negative words will not be a good name.
7. Avoid using polyphonic words in baby's name
If you use polyphonic words in your name, it will make it difficult to read the name accurately, and it will lead to name ambiguity and even misinterpretation. For example, the name "long line" is pronounced differently, and the meaning of the word is completely different.
8. Avoid using male and female names for baby names.
Avoid using male and female names for baby names, which means that boys' names are feminine and girls' names are masculine, and the gender is often confused from the name. Boys' names should have strong personality and broad temperament, while girls' names should have soft personality, elegant temperament and delicate style.