First, customs and human feelings
In some parts of China, traditional customs and human feelings are well preserved. When the daughter-in-law has just given birth to a baby or the baby is full moon, all the elders in the family will give a bride price. As for how much to give, it depends on the local customs and the economic strength of the elders at home. This is a custom of being polite. If something happens to the other person's family, the treasure moms must return the favor.
Second, the in-laws mind.
In essence, whether a mother-in-law is willing to give money to her daughter-in-law is her power. No one has the right and responsibility to make do with her mother-in-law. Generally speaking, as a grandmother, it's all about money for the granddaughter or little granddaughter who meets for the first time. Some heartbroken mothers-in-law will give money to their daughters-in-law. As a treasure mother, it is definitely not to have a baby, but to really reflect the mother-in-law's mind, isn't it?
Third, social fashion.
Now this social style has formed a good habit of blindly comparing with others. Young Ma Bao will compare with his relatives and friends around him. When he gives birth to a child, his mother-in-law will give his daughter-in-law some money as a gift. Therefore, many people in Ma Bao now think that their mother-in-law should do the same. If she doesn't give money to others, it means that her parents-in-law are heartless to herself, which means that she married someone who doesn't cherish her life, and it will also make Ma Bao sad. In fact, the biggest fear in real life is blind comparison. As the saying goes, "people are more irritating than others." Sometimes, living well is enough. There is really no need to go online, as long as the mother-in-law is willing to serve you wholeheartedly in the month, and then she is willing to help you take care of the children.