It is precisely because of this that naming their children has become something that parents pay special attention to. Many parents will look through dictionaries and think about a good name for their children for days and nights.
I don’t know when the naming method of “father’s surname and mother’s surname” suddenly became popular. Although the names chosen in this way are very novel and have profound meanings, they still have certain drawbacks.
When Mr. Wei and his wife had been married for two years, his wife successfully gave birth to a very cute daughter. Because the educational level of the couple is not high, they have been thinking about a name for a long time and cannot come up with a suitable name.
Later, Mr. Wei and his wife heard from friends that it is now popular to name children by combining the couple’s surnames. The names created in this way are very novel and have profound meanings, which is a very good way. Naming method.
In this way, the couple decided to combine the two people's last names and named the child. At first, the couple didn't feel there was anything wrong with the name. It wasn't until the child entered kindergarten that the couple discovered that the name was not a good one.
Because Mr. Wei's wife happens to be named "Zhu", so their daughter is called "Wei Zhu", which is homophonic to "feeding pigs". Since entering kindergarten, my daughter has always come home crying because of her name, telling her parents that she was laughed at by her classmates.
Seeing the child feel sad every day, the couple regretted it so much that they immediately took the child to change their name without even thinking about it.
Although "father's surname, mother's surname" is indeed a very good way of naming, this method also has many disadvantages and is not suitable for every child.
If parents blindly follow the trend and name their children in this way, the situation in Mr. Wei's family will happen.
Therefore, when naming our children, we still need to be extra cautious, and we cannot blindly name our children. This naming method of "father's surname and mother's surname" is not necessarily the best naming method.
First of all, the biggest drawback of this naming method is that it is easy to encounter many homophones. For example, the surname of Mr. Wei in the case is combined with that of his wife, Ms. Zhu, to form "Pig Feeding". Such bad homophony will cause great psychological harm to children.
If parents don’t think about anything and blindly follow the trend and give their children such names, then the children will easily become the laughing stock of other students when they go to school, and such an experience will seriously affect the children’s development. mental health.
Secondly, this way of naming is easy to duplicate names. If everyone adopts this method of naming, the chance of "name collision" is still very high, and it is easy to have the same name.
Secondly, such a name can easily cause embarrassment. For example, once a couple divorces and the child is still called by this name, it will be a little awkward.
For example, actors Wen Wen and Ma Yili are a good example. The two of them named their daughter "Wen Aima" based on their surnames. As a result, the two divorced and the name became a Embarrassing name.
Fortunately, the name the couple gave Hao was just a nickname for the child. It would have been more embarrassing if it had been a nickname.
Therefore, this naming method is still very inappropriate.
Finally, by naming in this way, it is easy to come up with strange and awkward names. For example, when we were in high school, there was a girl named like this by her parents. Her father's surname was Wang and her mother's surname was Yu, so she was named Wang Yu Aizi.
Although this name is not a name collision, and there is no problem with homophones, because this name has a relatively long number of characters and there is a "子" at the end, many classmates in our class laughed at it at the time. She is Japanese.
Therefore, such a name is still easy to make a joke, which will affect the child's physical and mental health, growth and personality. We do not recommend that parents name their children like this.
A name should accompany a child throughout his life. The naming method of "father's surname and mother's surname" is indeed very trendy and meaningful. However, we still need to pay attention to many issues when naming our children.
For example, the first thing we need to pay attention to is the problem of homophony, otherwise the child will easily become the laughing stock of other classmates, which will seriously affect the child's mental health.
Secondly, we should be careful not to choose words with too many strokes or uncommon words to name our children. Such names are inconvenient to write and are easy to be mistaken and make a joke. .
Secondly, when we name our children, we should try to avoid names with a high rate of duplication. Such names will bring a lot of trouble to the children in the future. When the children go to school , the disadvantages will appear.
Finally, when we name our children, it is best to avoid the names of some celebrities. In order to prevent the child from being compared with others and living in the shadow of other people's names, it will affect the child's physical and mental health.
Message:
Naming a child seems to be a small matter, very easy and simple, but in fact there is a lot of knowledge involved. If parents are not cautious enough, they will It might harm the child.
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